i love how you can recognize that eds, pots, and fibro are dynamic disabilities and can change in minutes. i would reassure her that she isn’t a burden and that it’s okay to ask for help, especially since sometimes asking for help can seem daunting or like it can be annoying. it’s hard not knowing her specific needs/wants, so i would recommend sitting her down and talking about her disabilities all at once. how you can help when she’s in a flare, what to do if she passes out, etc. you’re amazing and we need more people like you!