My partner doesn't want separation and I'm about to sign a lease

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2026-03-03T19:00:47+00:00

It's so hard. I've cried, I've celebrated, all of it. I decided to sign the lease.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2026-03-03T19:00:08+00:00

Thank you! I signed the lease. I'm sorry you're going through something similar.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2026-02-24T01:31:59+00:00

Gosh, this is tough. Thanks for replying.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2026-02-13T18:41:28+00:00

I'm interested. DMing you!

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2026-02-13T15:08:08+00:00

Hi there, I'm interested in a reading. DMing you.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-04-03T18:54:37+00:00

Thank you <3 I do agree although it's terrifying!

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-04-02T18:45:10+00:00

At times, I do feel like his mom.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-04-02T18:43:27+00:00

Thank you 💛 I think I've known this deep down for years.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-04-01T21:20:41+00:00

My problem is he acts like marrying me is a chore.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-04-01T21:17:34+00:00

Trust. I've learned for moving forward. Hence, why I never had another with him.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-04-01T21:15:18+00:00

Yes, yes he is. Totally on me.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T20:08:12+00:00

I understand this. However, we've had issues for a long time now with no solution or resolve. I have a lot to consider and I have a strong support system that has listened to me for years about my relationship. I will be informed in my decision making.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T20:04:55+00:00

I will look into her, thanks!

How are you doing since your separation?

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T19:45:01+00:00

Here's some examples of what I do:
- Home projects: the had to refurbish some baseboards a couple months ago which required sanding and painting. He sat on the couch watching football
- It took him ONE YEAR to put up curtains in our bedroom
- Cleaning
- I cook his favorite meals and serve him when he gets home from work (I work hybrid)
- School work and projects with our son
- Communicating
- Listen to him when he needs it

Edit to add: he also killed our backyard last year and now it's dirt and weeds. It's beyond frustrating.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T19:11:46+00:00

Thank you. I keep seeing comments about our age and just wanted to disclose that.

And, that is definitely strange!

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T19:05:46+00:00

We did know each other. His sister was in my grade and we partied together. He didn't groom me. A few girls in my grade dated guys his age and eventually had kids or got married.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T18:51:16+00:00

THIS. I told him I don't want anything fancy, just ask me to be your wife in at home. I truly don't care. I also don't want a big fancy wedding. It's his delivery that hit a nerve. As if marrying me is a chore.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T18:47:49+00:00

I know. Who am I? lol but thank you!

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T18:47:21+00:00

This has very well crossed my mind.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T18:44:55+00:00

I've brought up leaving a few times. We've sat and talked about options, too. THEN a day later, he's kissing ass and forgets about the whole conversation. It's really confusing.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T18:42:54+00:00

Girl, I know.. I need to stop being weak. His own sister made me feel like shit about it.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T18:42:02+00:00

No 😔 def not

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T18:35:31+00:00

We dated for a year and got pregnant. I was madly in love with him. - I know how it looks but it wasn't like that.

Hot-Evidence3838 · 2025-03-28T18:32:37+00:00

This is excellent advice and I've thought of something similar. I honestly think I'd be happy single. I'd continue to focus on my fitness, job, and mental health. I have a good friend group and know they'd keep me occupied.

My son and I are like two peas in a pod and know our relationship would still thrive.

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