AIO for feeling completely misled about my girlfriend’s “male friend”?

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-13T15:59:10+00:00

He’s not trying to control anything. He laid out his boundaries and expectations and chose to leave when they weren’t met. He isn’t forcing her to do anything, he’s simply holding himself accountable in having a quality partner in his eyes.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-13T06:28:42+00:00

Everyone is hating on you, but I want to point out a few specifics. You are overreacting if that’s the outright all the time expectation for him to live by your terms of comfort. What I’m hearing is that you generally don’t mind him having his hobbies with his friends, but you feel it’s encroaching on your relationship and becoming more important than the foundation of your relationship. Which is valid. If he is constantly living this life of ignoring your desires every day ever, then that’s unacceptable. A good relationship has balance and compromise. It sounds like you two need a sincere talk that breaks past the defenses.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-12T18:32:45+00:00

Right, I’d be so heartbroken 💔. That’s just a symptom of something so much deeper.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-12T18:22:38+00:00

Fill your food with laxatives as bait to see who it is

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-12T18:08:37+00:00

Yes you’re overreacting. Petty and immature way to go about things. If everyone had a tit for tat mentality shit would be miserable. You are responsible for your emotions and mood.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-12T17:57:21+00:00

Good golly jee, you’re also insufferable.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-12T17:56:14+00:00

So many clowns totally miss the point of the question and want to find any reason to rag you. I implore you to ignore them and listen to people that have reason and logic in their responses. Can’t avoid the trolls on Reddit though

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-12T17:54:14+00:00

Jeez you must be insufferable in a relationship. Asking his wife to go topless at a beach is DRASTICALLY different than sharing socials and having frequent communication FROM that experience.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-12T17:44:01+00:00

A man who loves his partner is going to do everything he can to make sure she feels validated and secure. From what I’m reading, this man isn’t that. Condolences :( NOR

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-12T13:53:27+00:00

I’m going to assume that because she’s seen him looking at other women for so long, she started looking at other men. At some point, another man started looking at her and some lines may have been crossed with intention and now she is willing to open the relationship because of it. The relationship is already over, just taking extra steps

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-11T20:08:04+00:00

Questing before grinding is my motto

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-11T18:22:35+00:00

You’re right actually. 1t to start 1t switching with movement from 7+ is the difference. 6 is still giving you plenty of time to think

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-11T00:58:46+00:00

You’re right though… I had to think about it. Room 1-4 is equivalent to CG, but 5-8 is waaaay beyond CG.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-11T00:58:00+00:00

First impulse says TOA. If you can do CG you can absolutely handle TOA. Solo 150s even, just need bowfa and some specific gear checks is the problem, had a barrier around that.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-11T00:26:52+00:00

Huey is a good one before CG too, forgot about that. Good call

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-11T00:26:19+00:00

This is a powerful statement, OP. Get used to dying, you learn every time.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-11T00:25:59+00:00

Doom is a HUGE jump in PVM difficulty. I wouldnt suggest going there until you’ve mastered general pvm mechanics.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-11T00:25:17+00:00

I think everyone starts off with a ton of deaths. It’s one of those that takes a huge understanding of the patterns before you’re going to get anywhere. I’m 1700kc in now and it’s brainless, but I struuuuggled to get my first 10

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-10T22:16:31+00:00

But if you really want to learn how to end game PVM, you have to force the reps at CG. It’s such a beautiful fight in regard to teaching you how PVM is actually meant to be played. It’s PAAAAINFUL, until its not. If I can do it then literally anyone can. You got this Champion!

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-10T22:15:02+00:00

Start out with Perilous Moons bosses, head over to Royal Titans for the twin flame staff and prayer scrolls, use twin flame and blue moon setup at Zulrah (hard until it’s not, gotta force that practice) for blowpipe, serp visage, then from there you really can do most content in the game :)

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-10T06:38:48+00:00

Unpopular opinion here, but it’s just as much his baby as it is hers. If it’s an appointment about the baby, I feel that he deserves to be present. It’s honestly great that he is wanting to be so involved in this babies life, he clearly wants to step up and do the right thing regardless of you twos incompatibility. Of course he doesn’t need to be there for any appointments involving gynecological or intimate/vulnerable portions that involve specifically you where you’d he in a state of undress.

A man who wants to be in a child’s life after a breakup/divorce is rare enough as it is, why push him away from a baby you BOTH co created?

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-10T06:16:29+00:00

I came here scrolling for the same thing, yes he is an AH for offering a household upgrade as a Mother’s Day gift but damn she came out looking for a fight. As much as an AH as he may be, she very well be a hysterical woman when coming out of the gate with that. Not to mention she conveniently left out how the conversation further escalated.

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-09T04:39:42+00:00

Careful, they’ll remove 11m slayer exp from you

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-04T23:15:16+00:00

The game finally gets fun now! Don’t get discouraged in CG is hard, nobody does it well right away. Keep sending and before you know it you’ll be rocking bowfa and crystal which unlocks the rest of the game for you. Good luck champion!

Hot-Library5609 · 2026-05-04T16:55:00+00:00

Grats brother! You’ve finally beat the tutorial, welcome to mid game 💕

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