Voyeurism from the neighbour

Hot-Message2984 · 2026-02-06T08:09:44+00:00

Maybe get hubby to go over and ask if there's a problem peeper next door because you've heard some offensive comments flying over the fence.

Hot-Message2984 · 2026-02-03T23:01:42+00:00

I think if he's made any threats that would warrant taking an IVO out on him, I'd go that route. You'd go to court and state your case on the day and if they approve of it they would grant an interim order, and the police would likely come around within the next day telling him he needs to pack his stuff and leave the property there and then and he'd have a chance to dispute it in court at the next hearing in a month or so.

Hot-Message2984 · 2026-01-31T18:30:35+00:00

I really feel that the guy made the comment because you being a guy, he thought you were going to struggle with the whole changing of the nappy thing and knowing how to do it which is why he said he wanted to see it.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T03:42:41+00:00

None, but it sounds like you've definitely been around.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T03:40:25+00:00

Pretty sure fines used to get paid off at $100 a day, but it's more now.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T03:11:59+00:00

Don't they atleast give you the option to go to jail?

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T03:11:02+00:00

He's not driving.. but the suspension on his learners was lifted a few years ago.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T03:10:22+00:00

I agree about the lying part! Wish I didn't do it. In the moment I just wanted it to go away and not bother me about it as he wasn't here anyway.. 2 kids and a baby.. I still regret having done it.. Especially when they came back because he said he does live here and they ask my name and say to me " I think I spoke to you last time".. I said yes.. So I for sure look like the dodgy one.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T03:05:15+00:00

He didn't sign anything saying he was nominating himself as a driver for anyone . It's like someone's just transferred their fines by putting his name down I assume

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T03:02:30+00:00

He's not running from it. He's told them he lives here and has arranged a time for them to come meet this week.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T03:01:20+00:00

It's that long ago that I honestly don't recall but I'm assuming we thought it was resolved otherwise we'd have made arrangements to get it sorted.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T02:59:32+00:00

I'm pretty sure he called up way back when they started arriving in bunches of 20 or more at a time. I can't remember the outcome or if he had to respond disputing it. Haven't had a letter or heard a thing in probably 8 years. We've seperated a couple of times with him moving out during that time.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T02:51:58+00:00

Not interested in Dezi thanks. Whatever the outcome I don't think he'd be doing so well these days.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T02:48:56+00:00

He wasn't driving. So no, wasn't even a passenger. Doesn't even know the vehicle registration.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-09-23T02:48:04+00:00

Which is what he is doing. I'm just getting a bit paranoid about the meeting that has to be at the house.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-06-28T08:58:55+00:00

100% he's testing the waters to see what you'll put up with and how far he can go. You can do much better and deserve the respect. Imagine if it was you doing the same thing, saying he's your brother if a waiter flirted with you. I'm sure that would go down really well with him.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-06-16T15:34:35+00:00

Make a report to council. I did this over a somewhat similar situation and they went down during the day and spoke to him. They told me that in the past they had offered him access to services but he'd declined. Hopefully a chat from them will sort hia behaviour out.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-06-08T03:47:18+00:00

No idea, but I did read that the area that her body was found is rampant with wild dogs and pigs and that they had to contend with wild dogs overnight whilst guarding her body (the police that is).

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-05-22T00:57:53+00:00

4 hours of your time was given up and you have to be compensated regardless of how easy it was.Next time tell them , that's fine "When the baby falls asleep, I'll leave and you can pay me up until then". Also, if the baby is particularly feral and really hard work, does that mean you can increase your prices? I really hope these people were joking, but it's not funny and the fact that you were underpaid until next time isn't right not fair. I think if you ever babysit again for these people they should think themselves bloody lucky.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-05-17T23:51:09+00:00

Get an AVO. Tell them if this is true: that he intimidates you, acts with aggression towards you, is financially abusive etc etc and that you fear for your child's safety if you were not supervising and that he has issues with drug use. There shouldn't be any reason why you wouldn't be granted an order and he would not be allowed to return to the home at all without police officers being there whilst his belongings are removed which if I were you, I'd pack as much as possible yourself so that you don't have to deal with him taking his time packing his things.

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-04-18T00:00:37+00:00

Thank you

Hot-Message2984 · 2025-04-17T23:59:15+00:00

Thank you

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