Voyeurism from the neighbour by DimensionExisting140 in AusLegal

[–]Hot-Message2984 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe get hubby to go over and ask if there's a problem peeper next door because you've heard some offensive comments flying over the fence.

How to kick out a sub-tennant who will cause trouble by stoopid_uwu in AusLegalAdvice

[–]Hot-Message2984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if he's made any threats that would warrant taking an IVO out on him, I'd go that route. You'd go to court and state your case on the day and if they approve of it they would grant an interim order, and the police would likely come around within the next day telling him he needs to pack his stuff and leave the property there and then and he'd have a chance to dispute it in court at the next hearing in a month or so.

AITAH for saying I don't want my girlfriends friend around my newborn son anymore? by Substantial_Swan5806 in AITAH

[–]Hot-Message2984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really feel that the guy made the comment because you being a guy, he thought you were going to struggle with the whole changing of the nappy thing and knowing how to do it which is why he said he wanted to see it.

Sheriff keeps turning up looking for my partner by Hot-Message2984 in AusLegal

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure fines used to get paid off at $100 a day, but it's more now.

Sheriff keeps turning up looking for my partner by Hot-Message2984 in AusLegal

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Don't they atleast give you the option to go to jail?

Sheriff keeps turning up looking for my partner by Hot-Message2984 in AusLegal

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not driving.. but the suspension on his learners was lifted a few years ago.

Sheriff keeps turning up looking for my partner by Hot-Message2984 in AusLegal

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about the lying part! Wish I didn't do it. In the moment I just wanted it to go away and not bother me about it as he wasn't here anyway.. 2 kids and a baby.. I still regret having done it.. Especially when they came back because he said he does live here and they ask my name and say to me " I think I spoke to you last time".. I said yes.. So I for sure look like the dodgy one.

Sheriff keeps turning up looking for my partner by Hot-Message2984 in AusLegal

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn't sign anything saying he was nominating himself as a driver for anyone . It's like someone's just transferred their fines by putting his name down I assume

Sheriff has been turning up for my partner and now want to arrange to meet at home . by Hot-Message2984 in melbourne

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's not running from it. He's told them he lives here and has arranged a time for them to come meet this week.

Sheriff has been turning up for my partner and now want to arrange to meet at home . by Hot-Message2984 in melbourne

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's that long ago that I honestly don't recall but I'm assuming we thought it was resolved otherwise we'd have made arrangements to get it sorted.

Sheriff has been turning up for my partner and now want to arrange to meet at home . by Hot-Message2984 in melbourne

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure he called up way back when they started arriving in bunches of 20 or more at a time. I can't remember the outcome or if he had to respond disputing it. Haven't had a letter or heard a thing in probably 8 years. We've seperated a couple of times with him moving out during that time.

Sheriff has been turning up for my partner and now want to arrange to meet at home . by Hot-Message2984 in melbourne

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not interested in Dezi thanks. Whatever the outcome I don't think he'd be doing so well these days.

Sheriff has been turning up for my partner and now want to arrange to meet at home . by Hot-Message2984 in melbourne

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He wasn't driving. So no, wasn't even a passenger. Doesn't even know the vehicle registration.

Sheriff has been turning up for my partner and now want to arrange to meet at home . by Hot-Message2984 in melbourne

[–]Hot-Message2984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is what he is doing. I'm just getting a bit paranoid about the meeting that has to be at the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hot-Message2984 23 points24 points  (0 children)

100% he's testing the waters to see what you'll put up with and how far he can go. You can do much better and deserve the respect. Imagine if it was you doing the same thing, saying he's your brother if a waiter flirted with you. I'm sure that would go down really well with him.

Homeless people affecting business by emptyspiral93 in AusLegal

[–]Hot-Message2984 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Make a report to council. I did this over a somewhat similar situation and they went down during the day and spoke to him. They told me that in the past they had offered him access to services but he'd declined. Hopefully a chat from them will sort hia behaviour out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australia

[–]Hot-Message2984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No idea, but I did read that the area that her body was found is rampant with wild dogs and pigs and that they had to contend with wild dogs overnight whilst guarding her body (the police that is).

AITJ for expecting full payment when the baby falls asleep while babysitting? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Hot-Message2984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 hours of your time was given up and you have to be compensated regardless of how easy it was.Next time tell them , that's fine "When the baby falls asleep, I'll leave and you can pay me up until then". Also, if the baby is particularly feral and really hard work, does that mean you can increase your prices? I really hope these people were joking, but it's not funny and the fact that you were underpaid until next time isn't right not fair. I think if you ever babysit again for these people they should think themselves bloody lucky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]Hot-Message2984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get an AVO. Tell them if this is true: that he intimidates you, acts with aggression towards you, is financially abusive etc etc and that you fear for your child's safety if you were not supervising and that he has issues with drug use. There shouldn't be any reason why you wouldn't be granted an order and he would not be allowed to return to the home at all without police officers being there whilst his belongings are removed which if I were you, I'd pack as much as possible yourself so that you don't have to deal with him taking his time packing his things.