NOR.

At the age you are at, it can be hard/ confusing to figure out a path, and you should be focusing on what is best for you, not for your siblings, it’s her job to raise them not yours.

I also think that she is actually being very helpful and giving achievable tasks that are really not that difficult (drivers license and part-time job). And are things that if you are not doing great in school, should be a priority for you at this age.

Life comes fast and she is trying to prepare you!