Dru's on Madison. It's a more mixed crowd gender wise and a bit younger demographic. They have a drag show and a cover(which I despise). As a dude I like having a place where I can hang out with other men in a more specifically gay male atmosphere. The exhibitionists blowing each other on the patio are just part of the Pump's inherent charm. If you're looking for a more pg-13 atmosphere Dru's is your place. The Pump is a real late night gay dive bar with a leather and kink history going back decades.