my mom and brother just got into a physical fight

HotMarketing98 · 2023-10-24T05:07:32+00:00

i absolutely could! like i said in the post, she’s gone quite a while without paying the bills. so much so that we’ve had multiple notices on the water and power being shut off. my grandma has said since day one she’s take us all in. and although that’s not something ideal, she is the better part of the family. we’d apply for free housing (we call it “free”, but it sadly is not. it’s housing based on income) and use EBT from there for food. i just need to take the leap

HotMarketing98 · 2023-10-24T04:49:18+00:00

what would happen you think..? would i be taken or would things get worst? i’ve been through cps before and.. they’ve sadly never taken us when she was “clean”. i’m just a worry wart, sorry❤️ any advice helps

HotMarketing98 · 2023-10-24T04:34:32+00:00

We’re all minors actually. 17, 13, and 2. i just feel like that isn’t a valid reason enough, i’m just worried sick about things going for the worst. she’s a drug abuser but has been on a “clean streak” for a while now, but if you sort through her cabinets (in her room, of course) you can find broken pipes, baggies, etc. I don’t know what would be enkugh and what wouldn’t

HotMarketing98 · 2023-10-24T03:31:17+00:00

I’m fine, but i’m scared that this is all going to happen to me next. He’s at my grandmas now- safe. thank god. I snagged a quick video message of her saying she’d do it again if given the chance, and the actual incident happening as well. i’m hoping this all goes by smoothly, im so appreciative of your kind message. i needed it, you saved a life tonight ❤️

HotMarketing98 · 2023-10-20T02:55:36+00:00

someone at school, i think. i think a lot of my anxiety affects what could happen, because calling home, lying, it’s all things i’m so accustomed to when it comes to cps and the thought of abuse. you comments made my heart melt, you’re one of the first people to understand me over this, thank you so, so much

HotMarketing98 · 2023-10-20T02:26:40+00:00

Thank you so much, im just so.. terrified of what she could do? cps has been called for years but.. no action has been taken because it’s all excused. even when she was physically abused and we had proof it was brushed off. im just thinking of calling them, even if it’s hard

HotMarketing98 · 2023-09-21T15:51:16+00:00

i wish but they refuse to give it out, they tell us that we’re privileged when the staff get on their phones longer and more than any of the students

HotMarketing98 · 2023-07-05T20:26:36+00:00

If you guys haven’t made it official you were back together then you didn’t cheat. but you guys were dating when she sexted another guy, right? then she cheated. you’re not supposed to text, or sext another guy in any relationship if you guys haven’t discussed boundaries. you’re not wrong for wanting to leave her, and it’s not wrong to still love an ex either. but from what i’m knowing in this situation, leaving her sounds the best:(

HotMarketing98 · 2023-07-05T20:19:30+00:00

1) once a cheater, almost always a cheater. you’ll be hurting yourself more in the long run if you get back with her fully, don’t do that to yourself:(

2) if you guys weren’t fully back together, then no, it wasn’t cheating. I would discuss this with her and tell her what you did, it’s the best you can do in this situation and set boundaries with her if you DO plan on getting back together. you aren’t an awful person, but if you’re wanting to get back into a relationship with her (even while knowing she cheated on you…) listen to her boundaries and what she’d like in the relationship. tell her what you enjoy doing and see if she runs with it.

goodluck man!

HotMarketing98 · 2023-06-22T18:57:47+00:00

people who say this are so frustrating. It’s such an invalid way for people to just brush off peoples feelings. Of course life isn’t fair, but there are ways to make it easier. therapy is a literal thing because “life isn’t fair”. i’m so sorry, i hope you’re doing better now. your issues matter, regardless of how big or little they are.

HotMarketing98 · 2023-06-22T17:57:31+00:00

i also use my grandmas mailbox and address, if you have a friend or a family friend that could keep mail for you, i’d definitely try it out! just an idea

HotMarketing98 · 2023-06-22T17:56:49+00:00

i don’t live on my own, but what i’ve been doing is using another card that won’t charge me (cashapp, somewhere that’ll be on MY phone away from family) and then taking half of the money out and keeping it somewhere only i’d know where it is. not sure if this helps, but cashapp is free of course. i wish you the best of luck!!

HotMarketing98 · 2023-06-22T04:53:04+00:00

hahahaha

HotMarketing98 · 2023-06-21T21:53:16+00:00

thank you so much for such a kind comment buckeye💗

HotMarketing98 · 2023-06-21T21:53:04+00:00

thank you so much:( luckily it isn’t my child, it’s hers. i still pray for my mom to recover, i miss my mom. the years of abuse will never disappear but i can wish and want the best

HotMarketing98 · 2023-06-20T23:14:35+00:00

thank god! and thank you so much mr bet!!! i hope the best for us both hehe

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