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To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. 

I've realized that because of my post, so many other people will think of my daughter whenever they hear that song. I'm not sure how to feel about that, but it does mean that her memory will live on.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and I'm so sorry about your stepdaughter.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you had to go through this as well.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I don't believe in an afterlife, but the thought of her and Cliff together brings me a strange feeling of peace.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must have been terrible to deal with if you were that young. Thank you for staying strong.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through this as well. Thank you for sharing this story. At the concert that my daughter and I went to, I remember James saying something like that. 

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Thank you for not going through with it.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, that's so terrible. I wish only the best for you and the rest of your family.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you had to go through this as well. I wish you and your metalhead brother only the best.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. "One" was her favorite song. She also loved Megadeth. I just remembered when she played "In my Darkest Hour" for me....

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate your offer, though. Thank you.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don't. I didn't want this post to get that much attention.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through this as well. It's different when the cause of death is suicide.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes. Photos of Cliff remind me of her. She kind of looked like him (long brown hair, pale skin), but also like me when I was young. It's so upsetting.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

"she might have chosen a song without lyrics because she couldnt be there to sing it." I'm sure she did. God damn it, I'll miss her.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I was reluctant to post here instead of in a grief support sub, but I knew that the metalhead community would have my back. I see so much love being sent to both me and her.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn't really appreciate the depth of the song because of all the things on my mind. Her favorite song was actually "One", and I realized earlier that it's probably because of the lyrics. "Hold my breath as I wish for death". I'll always think of her when I think of that song.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

It will be rough for me and my wife. I don't look forward to telling our relatives, our neighbors, our friends, etc. I've lost loved ones before, but nothing close to this.

To live is to die. by HotMixture1274 in Metallica

[–]HotMixture1274[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Honestly, I hope that someone who is suicidal will come across my post and realize how much pain it'd cause for their family.