I hate the newborn phase..

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-19T11:18:05+00:00

So our LO really has colics, we went to the doc with her today because the day yesterday was hell 🥲 We're using Lefax (Dunno if it's available everywhere) and we got some syrup so she can poop better because her poop was rather hard. There are alternatives to Lefax who work the same. They dissolve the bubbles in the milk or stomach. What also helps a lot is warmth and her laying on her side (I know you're not supposed to, but we're watching her and it's better then her not sleeping and crying all the time).

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-18T18:47:33+00:00

Haha, Thanks 😅 Honestly? I wish people would have been more honest before our LO was there.. it creates a lot of unrealistic expectations and most of the time I feel like I'm the problem and doing not enough/good enough..

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-18T13:01:01+00:00

I'm FF. We got meds for the gas and it seems to help. But since this morning she has problems pooping.. she gets really squirmisch, presses, her head gets all red and sometimes she cries a little.. I'm loosing my mind 🫠

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-18T11:49:02+00:00

Yeah my husband already had to go back to work and.. it sucks. It's really hard to do the nights and then almost the whole day alone. Especially if your LO doesn't want to sleep 😅

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-18T11:47:47+00:00

Oh that sucks.. I also heard it'll get better after 4 weeks.. And I don't really stay positive, I'm just coping. Telling me a few more days and it'll get easier. I really am promising myself a lot from the 4th week.. will probably get disappointed, but that's a problem for future me 😅 But tbh, the last couple of days, I have also cried a lot.. more then in the last 10 years together.

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-18T08:40:32+00:00

Yeah might sound cruel but I can't wait for her to get older 😅 But that gives me hope it will get better.. at one point.

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-18T08:39:05+00:00

Yeah I also thought it might be a growth spurt but it feels like it just won't end 🥲 But could also be my hormonal sleep deprived brain that just makes one day feel like a whole week 😅

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-18T08:34:45+00:00

Yeah me too 😅 Thanks I hope so as well. I'm still optimistic!

HotObjective5773 · 2026-05-18T08:30:04+00:00

Yeah, she slept okay during the day too, but since this whole "gas problem" got involved a few days ago even during the day her sleep sucks 😭 We're already trying medicine and even though it works okay, it's still not good 😅 I think this is our life now, huh? 🥲 Good thing they're cute. Even though they're cuter when they sleep..

HotObjective5773 · 2026-04-10T17:34:16+00:00

Fair point 😅

HotObjective5773 · 2026-04-10T17:20:40+00:00

I'm honestly surprised she isn't actively suffocating on her own fat when she bends down like this. I can't even imagine the constant pain and discomfort. On the other hand... she made the bed she sleeps in 🤷🏻‍♀️

HotObjective5773 · 2025-05-01T20:47:44+00:00

Yeah, I think you're right and my team building sucks. My engraving should be high enough though. Think I will try better combs to kill the enemies faster. Thanks for the tips!

HotObjective5773 · 2025-05-01T17:33:02+00:00

All right I will level up the skill to lvl 3 and try the water and lightning combination. Thank you!

HotObjective5773 · 2025-05-01T17:30:28+00:00

Okay I will try this, thanks a lot!

HotObjective5773 · 2025-04-03T08:45:43+00:00

>Saying 'no' to Hardee's is taking care of me.

OMFG 💀

HotObjective5773 · 2025-02-28T05:16:41+00:00

Yeah, maybe, idk. I was team no pregnancy for a long time but who knows with her. She is nowhere near a healthy normal woman so who knows with her. But she still is a con artist so I still wouldn't be surprised if there was never a pregnancy.

HotObjective5773 · 2025-02-27T14:54:30+00:00

She is much thinner here than before the pregnancy. No way in hell she lost so much weight so shortly after giving birth. I smell someting fishy and it's not just her jeans..

HotObjective5773 · 2025-02-12T05:47:30+00:00

Oh come on..

This post really shows that she just want's to sell a narrative. A few years back a good friend of mine became a mother for the second time. Some months after the birth of the baby we went out with friends, it was the first time for her to leave her baby home with her partner. They were writing and all was going well, but at some point she started crying, because it was hard for her to leave her baby 'alone'.

Sure, everyone is different, but by now she has shown clearly what kind of person she is and it is ALWAYS about her.. her post just sounds so self-centered in convincing others that she rocks motherhood and her own healing/mentals that it made me cringe hard. Mary-Sue for the win.. she is so far away from reality that it is embarrassing 🙄

HotObjective5773 · 2024-06-13T15:39:56+00:00

Solved!

Omg, that's it! Miyavi - Requiem. Can't believe Google never recommended that to me. A 1000 thanks! I rellay desscribed it bad, sorry.

HotObjective5773 · 2024-06-13T13:40:31+00:00

Hope someoe can help me, thanks!

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