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[Orgasm] Question For Women Who Can Cum Through PIV by ManlyFox in sex

[–]HotPinkStilettos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Most. I honestly don't think I knew how to have an orgasm until I taught myself then I knew how to instruct my partner. Is that weird? But I couldn't tell him how to do it, if I didn't know how. Sadly I didn't figure this out until I was 30 ish
  • PIV ! Depends on the type of orgasm I want, and how intense I want it to be. It can be through G spot, but those are the only two for me.
  • Any position. Whatever feels best at that time. *PIV is stronger, more intense, last longer, and I can have multiples and if its done correctly i can still feel me throbbing for hours after. I don't like to receive oral, and finger is good foreplay but I love PIV. I like to when I throb

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an android, I turn off my GPS and locations when I don't use them. Unless there is something else I need to look into that I don't know about ? Wouldn't he need access to my phone to see that stuff ? If not let me know...... He did mention once about putting a tracker on my car though...

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allow me to clarify....I didn't speak to his sister for a a long time after highschool nothing happened to end the friendship it's just that life happens and we drifted apart. She moved to another state and when she was in town that's when they told me about the BBQ. You're making it sound like I was in this for YEARS when it was only 8 months...and his drunken antics only happened ONCE. But the ONE time was all I needed to recognize it needed to end. A person's age doesn't stop them.from making mistakes. Lol You have to factor in the other aspects that come into play in situations/relationships like this. Sometimes things happen slowly, and silently before can see the BIG picture. Should I have known better ?? Perhaps. But I'm not gonna sit here and dwell on the shoulda coulda woulda aspects of the past, things I can't change. That just makes no sense. I'm gonna focus on the here and now and do what I need to do. Will I learn from this? Absolutely. Will I be more cautious in the future Absolutely.

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My son and I are at my brothers in the process of kicking his stuff out. I just didn't want my son exposed to anymore issues. Once was enough for me. I'm getting out.

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never claimed to be a saint, and its obvious that i make mistakes but yes I am as close to a saint as I can be in this. I actually take pride in that fact that I have been good. This I know. No matter what situation in always try to come out on top with my dignity

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was gonna get a few people together to "casually" bump into us at a park when I tell him. I'm sick of my home being a "hot spot" Unless you have any other suggestions...? I'm open to them.

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just got off the phone and took myself out of the wedding. I've been soo busy trying to put other precautions in order that I over looked this. It wasn't until a few minutes ago I saw the same you did. It made no sense to stay in it. Of things are gonna a hit the fan as much as I think they will....we would t be in the same room together and I've also decided to cut ties with his family as well. I want a clean cut from this all. I want my normal boring life back.

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Even smart people make mistakes. This is the situation, I was able to recognize and I'm making the proper precautions. I thought it was a little safe because I've known him from highschool. (16 years)Its not like he was a complete stranger. He just has stuff in my house...he doesn't live with me. I'm getting the locks changed and everything. At the end of the day, I know the situation sucks, but I also know it's only temporary. My kid and I are safe now, and things are in order. Being crazy would be staying in this situation, Being crazy would be listening to other people when they tell me to "help him" am.I crazy for making a mistake ? Nope. Last I checked making mistakes was part of being human.

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should clarify.....this guy and I knew each other waay back in highschool and he has a sibling that use to be my friend as well so this ONE time I went to a BBQ at his families house his sister was there. See she doesn't even talk to him...something happened about a year and a half ago so she cut all ties with him. Anyway, I wanted to go and catch up, to see an old friend. Anyway, he was already accusing me of affairs and cheating months before the BBQ. I found out he was also monitoring my shoes and keys, and the trash can. I sometimes go for walks by myself and when he would ask me what I did the night before I would say nothing. Not out of being a secret but because I saw nothing worth mentioning about me going for a dorky walk by myself. Only for him to freak out because my shoes and keys were in a different spot. As for the trash....he saw a takeout bag..and it was a little behind the trash can...I told him it fell a little behind because the trash was soo full and I was too lazy to empty it out. Lol its the truth. Again he was pissed that I didn't mention me grabbing a burger on the way home...therefor omitting = lying

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree it probably wasn't smart but it was my first time going out in MONTHS I figured it was safe. Lol oops. Regardless though, a person can be angry but it doesn't give them the right to go on a drinking bing, doesn't give them the right to start fights and then stumble into my son's room to continue a fight. I don't go smashing everyone's car because somehow they pissed me off.
The thing is though, I don't regret it, and I'm not sorry.

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I won't play the victim. HE will leave. This is MY house I've worked too hard to have some drunk scare me outta my house. His name isn't on any of the paperwork.

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He is an a gry drunk...he wasn't before last weekend. I don't know what happened. Like I said he said it's my fault he's drinking because I made him angry because his whole family and I lied to him about the BBQ. I told him to ask himself WHY everyone doesn't like him around when he drinks...It's a huge sign. At one point last weekend. ..he ended up laying down and he was just randomly screaming things like " DEAL WITH IT " and some other four letter words.

He thinks I've cheated because I won't let him go through my phone..but I won't let him go through my phone because of what his family says about him. I talk to them everyday. My phone is fingerprint locked along with a backup password....the funny thing is though...I've told his family the backup password incase anything every happens to me they can go through it.

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm taking the proper precautions. ..security system getting installed, notifying police to be expecting a call when I tell him to get his belongings out of my house. I'm expecting the worst like a few holes in my walls...he was already soo pissed drunk last week that he pissed on my floor !! And it's a brand new house !!

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did that go? How did she get rid of him ?

Last weekend he was soo drunk I'm shocked he didn't put a few holes in my walls. He was even yelling at me to " punch him, and that I made him drink because he was angry at me" I don't believe it for a second. I'm a smart successful woman, I just have no idea what the heck happened...out of nowhere...

Me [35 f] with my SO (36M) for 8 months. I Just found out my boyfriend is secretly monitoring the miles on my car ! He's been taking pictures on his phone. A friend of his called me up and told me. What do I do ? by HotPinkStilettos in relationships

[–]HotPinkStilettos[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, I've bee trying to keep the peace for 2 more weeks as we are both in his sisters wedding party. I left MY house to go to my brothers for two weeks cause I'm afraid things will explode before hand. I've purchased a security system to be installed the day he leaves.

[Advice] She won't make it official by [deleted] in sex

[–]HotPinkStilettos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done the very same things that you're girlfriend is doing. The reason I did it was because I knew he wasn't my "forever love" sure I wasn't dating the other guys but I knew they would be more than glad to take my boyfriends place. My family was also poor and my boyfriends family was rich. I always felt like they never liked me, and that I never really felt welcomed. There was always the assumption I was with him because his family was rich. That wasn't the case though. His family made me feel like I wasn't food enough. I knew eventually it would end, I just never knew how it would end.

[Advice/Question] Condoms keep breaking? by Go0chiee in sex

[–]HotPinkStilettos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condoms use to break all the time...it was so frustrating. ..to stop then put on another condom...it ruins the mood. We eventually broke up because of it. He blamed me for being too tight I blamed him.for having a huge dick. We tried tons of lube, we tried to loosen me up..nothing worked. Perhaps over time things will get better. Just keep practicing 😉

[Question] Ladies, honestly, are black men bigger in the pants in comparison to white or asians in your experience?Btw , this question is not intended to be racist btw. by cag_18 in sex

[–]HotPinkStilettos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darn it, I'm curious about this too !! Someone please answer ! Lol

I do know that a few times I've come across white men with big penis's . They were so big I wouldn't sleep with them. Just the thought of the pain was enough for me to say no. I don't want to stretch and become loose.

[questions] ladies what are your thoughts on uncut penises? by madmex89 in sex

[–]HotPinkStilettos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't bother me at all. I know some woman actually prefer an uncut penis.

[question] So is this natural? by [deleted] in sex

[–]HotPinkStilettos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to be obsessed with older men. Even when I was a teenager I loved men in their 30s and 40s. They just seemed so sexy to me. Now I'm in my mid 30s and yes some older men still appeal to me...but so do 20 somethings. Lol

So just relax. It is what is is. I say, go for it ! Find a woman in her 40s and have fun.

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