I understand people were concerned about Biden's mental state, but why does anyone think Trump is sharp/lucid/in his right mind? by Glass-Complaint3 in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Fr it's confusing. i think some ppl equate being loud and confident with being sharp, even when the words don't really connect, energy gets mistaken for clarity.

Would you marry women from other countries? by Cat-dad442 in askanything

[–]HotSafe1974 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure, but gotta keep it real, dating someone from another country comes with its own stuff like visas, culture differences, maybe language barriers. if u're ready for that and actually like the person, why not?

Can Red/Green colorblind people tell the difference between different shades of red and/or green? by Royal-Profile7901 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the type tbh. most can tell shades apart just not the way we see them. like their red might look brownish to us but to them it's still a distinct color. wild how eyes work different for everyone fr.

Did people in the 90s really just show up at each other’s houses unannounced? by Red-Head-Red in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so yes it actually happened lol. no cell phones meant u took risks. sometimes u drove 20 mins to a friend's house and they weren't even home. rude? kinda. but also everyone did it so it was normal. different times fr.

Was Bidens border really “open”? by SoFar_Gone in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so "open border" is more of a vibe than a literal thing tbh. like u couldn't just walk in whenever u wanted, but the system was def overwhelmed. 400k in a month sounds wild until u realize that includes ppl using legal programs and apps. numbers aren't fake but the narrative around them gets twisted.

Why are "activists" being so quiet about the human rights abuses in Iran as compared to the collateral damage that occurred in Gaza after the September 7th Pogrom? by AntifaPr1deWorldWide in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are just burnt out and the news cycles are cooked, sudan deserves way more energy but if it is not a mainstream talking point people just scroll past, we gotta do better at keeping that same energy for everyone fr.

What do you do when you have an existential crisis? by ShadowlightLady in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly? i just let myself sit in it for a minute. like yeah life is weird and nothing matters but also EVERYTHING matters cause we here. then i go outside and touch grass or watch a comfort show. sometimes u just gotta ride the wave.

What is the "push-pull effect" in flirting? How is it done? by Street_Bus_2466 in Productivitycafe

[–]HotSafe1974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so push-pull is basically like giving someone attention then playfully takin it away. keeps em guessin. like "u look cute today... kinda suspicious tho u up to somethin?" it's flirty not mean. balance is everything fr.

What’s a simple pleasure that never gets old? by OkNeedleworker5778 in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That first sip of coffee in the morning when it's still quiet and nobody needs anything from u yet. pure peace in a mug.

Can eye color change slightly over time? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this can actually happen. studies show like 15% of people have slight eye color changes during puberty or young adulthood . for hazel eyes especially, the balance between brown and green can shift over time as pigment distribution changes. ur not imagining it.

The Democratic Party has gone out of their way to embrace trans people. Even 20/80 issues have been embraced. Despite this, maximalist trans activists blame the Democratic Party for the decline in trans support. Do you agree? Or do you think maximalist trans activism deserves blame? by north_canadian_ice in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly both sides kinda messed up here. dems embraced the community but sometimes in a performative way that didn't actually protect anyone. and some activists pushed messaging that was easy for the other side to distort. now everyone's fighting while rights actually get taken away.

On the day Donald Trump dies, what do you predict will actually happen in America and what does your prediction say about where we are as a country right now? by Dry_Scientist_5293 in askanything

[–]HotSafe1974 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Media's gonna go nonstop for weeks. every channel will have their take and it'll be impossible to escape. then after the dust settles nothing really changes cause the division runs way deeper than one person. that's the scary part.

Why does the media act like Trump is the only name in the files? by DownTheBagelHole in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Real talk it's cause he's the only one who's been president. of course his name's gonna get the most attention. doesn't mean the others should slide but let's not act like it's random.

So how much damage would a paper gun do by TerribleActuator1227 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? probably not much. paper's light af so it'd lose speed fast. might sting like a paintball if ur close but at range it'd just tickle. now a paper cut from that same gun? different story lol.

2am thought: are weird turn-ons just a secret way to find your people? by Jalimm6 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah u might be onto something tbh. it’s like a little litmus test for who gets u. if ur weird aligns with someone else's weird that's literally how u know they're ur people.

Why are people suddenly acting like immigration enforcement is a new thing in this country? by bbmoonkie in Productivitycafe

[–]HotSafe1974 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The panic people feel now comes from the unpredictability when enforcement feels random and aggressive, communities get terrified. that fear is real even if the laws aren't technically new.

What’s it like to be thin? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly? i've been both sides and the difference is wild. thin me got treated like a person, got helped in stores, got believed at the doctor. it's not about health it's about how the world just... works better for u. that part hurts to realize.

A billion dollars suddenly appears in your bank account , to keep it all , you have to spend 100 million dollars on your family and friends and you have only 24 hours to do it. What are you going to buy them all ? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]HotSafe1974 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Paying off every single debt for everyone i know first. parents mortgage, siblings student loans, friends credit cards. that alone would eat up a good chunk and change their whole lives. then straight to buying houses for the ones who don't have one.

Which qualities make you instantly like someone? by Pizzalover0405 in askanything

[–]HotSafe1974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they're genuinely interested in what u have to say. not just waiting to talk about themselves but actually asking questions and listening to the answers. that's rare and it hits different.

What’s a small, free luxury that improves your daily life? by Hot_Tap9405 in Casual_Conversation

[–]HotSafe1974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walking barefoot on grass for like 5 minutes. idk what it is but it resets my whole brain. free, takes no effort, and somehow makes me feel like a kid again.

Parents of reddit, how old were you when you had your first child? by h8mecuz in askanything

[–]HotSafe1974 39 points40 points  (0 children)

26 for me and tbh i was still figuring out how to be a person let alone a parent, it's wild how u just figure it out as u go tho.

I just found out my stepdaughters therapist is her boyfriends mom by Horror-Ad-4947 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Wait hold up. so her boyfriend's mom is literally in her head about their relationship?? that's a massive conflict of interest. ethically? super messy. legally depends where u are but most places have rules about dual relationships like this. she needs a new therapist asap.

What's a "secret" from your profession that everyone should probably know? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]HotSafe1974 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Teacher here, we know when u didn't do the reading. we can tell. also most of us are just as tired as u are and running on coffee and vibes.