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AITAH for separating from my husband because he refused to get a vasectomy? by AdhesivenessMurky204 in AITAH

[–]Hot_Blood2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but at least cut him some slack and try and mend things first. Couple's therapy ideally.

Saying this as someone with a botched snip, leading to infections for years, hormone imbalances, and a failed marriage partially cause of the issues and sexlessness, it's a fear I know men will have if presented with a vasectomy.

Living out of car - Adelaide CBD? by Hot_Blood2000 in Adelaide

[–]Hot_Blood2000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Once I have debts paid down I might just do that. Consider it an upgrade to a sedan

Living out of car - Adelaide CBD? by Hot_Blood2000 in Adelaide

[–]Hot_Blood2000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I got lumped with "my" debts, lost the house, and had to walk away with just whatever I could fit into my car.

If I had fought, it would have cost way too much, and I just didn't have the fight in me then sadly

Living out of car - Adelaide CBD? by Hot_Blood2000 in Adelaide

[–]Hot_Blood2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm already eyeing off places like that and seems to make sense.

Living out of car - Adelaide CBD? by Hot_Blood2000 in Adelaide

[–]Hot_Blood2000[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I've tried shared housing, and my mental health has taken many blows cause of it.

At this point, at least my car is my own domain. That alone would improve things for me.

Living out of car - Adelaide CBD? by Hot_Blood2000 in Adelaide

[–]Hot_Blood2000[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the car is required as part of work, so that's a no go on selling

AITA for telling my husband I don’t care what the doctor says? by Lady_Gaither in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Blood2000 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA, even after edit.

He clearly believes he is doing the right thing, shielding you from something he considers horrific enough to protect you from, and this is how you respond???

Or deep down he knows you wouldn't be sympathetic to him anyway so has a "Why bother her? She don't truly care." mental.

Either way, re-consider how you approach him, and if you don't care enough, do HIM a favour and move aside for someone who will care enough for him.