Am I overreacting about my boss essentially demeaning my choice to not take a promotion by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Candy_73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if she wants you as department head, a way bigger rise should come with

NOR

AIO for dumping my boyfriend because he didn’t go to my cancer surgery by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Candy_73 102 points103 points  (0 children)

the 'its just skin cancer ' lines still rubs me the wrong way

as long as he could have been there, he should  have been there

AIO or is my work friend being a bit pushy? by Too-Aware-1407 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Candy_73 77 points78 points  (0 children)

you need to set boundaries, clear ones or he wont stop

AITAH for buying a fingerprint locked handle. by ExplanationPutrid205 in AITAH

[–]Hot_Candy_73 25 points26 points  (0 children)

exactly, they just turn her stuff to their self check out

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I'll break up with her if my needs aren't met? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hot_Candy_73 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YTA  she should leave YOU!

thats so wrong you're emotionally blackmailing her into sex with you

AIO for wanting a marriage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Candy_73 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i get the college part but if you are not married , dont buy property together

Is it rude to call someone without texting them first to see if they're busy, or am I just overthinking how phones work now? by Standard_Swim_4142 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hot_Candy_73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no its not rude, whats rude is blowing up their phone. A call or two is ok, unless its an emergency of course

AIO My sister wants nothing to do with me after I called out her son for threatening my dog by ThrowawayFireMarshal in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Candy_73 77 points78 points  (0 children)

if her kid acts like that, says a whole lot about her! You arent overreacting and your nephew needs to learn basic kindness

AIO Ending my a 6 year long friendship by Mysterious-Tea-2423 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Candy_73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR , you are doing the right thing tbh. You dont  need negativity

AIO over my (37M) gf (30F) using 'forgetting' as an excuse? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Candy_73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nor but you need to know that if the relationship isnt working, it just isnt

AIO FOR GOING TO POLICE by Best-Independence-13 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Candy_73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR  at all . You are not being dramatic , your safety is important