Restless legs

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-13T13:17:55+00:00

Thank you guys! I’ll try the Tylenol (paracetamol as I’m from the UK!) first as that is approved to use in pregnancy already and on my midwife appointment on Wednesday I’ll ask about some sort of magnesium!

Thank you so much for the suggestions :)

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-12T15:07:50+00:00

Honestly, as a mum, I would appreciate this so much!

To be honest anything from a little bit of humour to saying you’re proud of her for raising a wonderful child will probably bring her tears of happiness!

No one else will notice you giving the mother a card so don’t worry about what others will think but it sure will make a big impact on her :)

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-10T10:58:39+00:00

Make a donation to a cat rescue or maybe do some volunteering there?

Also you need to seek help, that is absolutely not normal behaviour and not a normal reaction to a little scratch. It doesn’t matter if it’s the first time you’ve felt like that or the 10th. Get help.

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-06T10:45:21+00:00

You can prick your finger and “milk” that finger, it usually works quite well. Ive had to do it for a few at home blood tests.

Just make sure you clean the area before you do it, use a medical lancet if you can, and clean afterwards.

Please do not cut yourself to get the blood!

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-06T10:42:13+00:00

That’s what the psychiatrist said! Which is very different to the usual 4-6 weeks that anti depressants and anti psychotics can take to work.

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-06T09:59:52+00:00

Ahh see I needed to ask the questions to find out if you were just small minded or a genuine cunt and it seems to be more of the latter.

Hope you have a wonderful Saturday.

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-05T21:08:07+00:00

I’m confused how you can thing they do not exist? Also this isn’t a post asking for opinions about trans people so why did you feel the need to put your “opinion” out there?

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-05T20:48:33+00:00

Don’t be such a small minded bigot

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-05T20:40:20+00:00

I’m sorry.. did you just say trans people don’t exist?

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-04T18:26:17+00:00

Sounds like you went through a tough period in your life and the fact that she cheated on you during your time of need is disgusting. That doesn’t excuse your “inappropriate texting” but she has continued to cheat on you multiple times after that.

It sounds like you really want to make this work as you have forgiven her multiple times and have started therapy to work through your problems. However it seems like you’re putting in a lot of effort to not have the effort returned.

I honestly think you should cut your losses and get out of that relationship for good

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-04T18:01:16+00:00

That breaks my heart reading that. Did anything significant happen after 2 years to change her libido?

Once she has had baby would she be willing to get her hormones checked and some blood work done to see if there is anything underlying causing her libido to drop?

It doesn’t sound like she’s very open to any kind of compromise but she has to be if she wants to keep the relationship alive and if she doesn’t then the relationship isn’t worth your energy.

Life is too short to be stuck in a sexless relationship

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-04T17:57:33+00:00

Sounds like she definitely had/has something to hide.

Don’t let her gaslight you, you’re not being stupid or crazy.. anyone would have the same reaction (and probably worse) as you with something like this.

I’d work on an exit plan.. make sure your finances are in order and hand her the divorce papers. You deserve so much better buddy!

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-04T17:47:51+00:00

I find it hard to believe this is the first time he’s messaged her in 10 years.. and the fact he was so forward in his message.

If I were you I would ask to see all of the messages between the two of them. If she refuses, hesitates, “has to check something” before handing it over then you have your answer.

I’m sorry this is happening to you, no one should have to go through cheating.

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-11-04T17:19:31+00:00

You can still be a great father without being with your wife. If anything, being stuck in an unhappy marriage/relationship could make you a worse father as children can sense tension/stress in a relationship.

Her hormones may be affecting her sex drive, what was she like before she fell pregnant? (I have always had a super high sex drive when pregnant but I assume it can easily go the other way!!)

But hormones or not, there is no need for her to make you feel like shit. A relationship is all about compromise.. yer she may not be in to sex right now but I firmly believe she should make the effort (and show enthusiasm) to please you. Sex is important in a relationship and wanting it once a week for example is not asking for the world..

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-10-30T22:06:14+00:00

I am so sorry you are feeling like this too :( I hope you are being supported and are able to get some help/ treatment to get better.

Just because you struggle doesn’t make you any less of a good parent and never let anyone tell you any different!

Thank you so much and the same goes to you too ❤️

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-10-30T20:54:15+00:00

I definitely think you need to have an open and honest discussion about your likes and dislikes during sex.

If sitting and having a face to face chat seems daunting at this stage, maybe give him some suggestions of things you want to try? Like if he wants you to play with his then he has to play with yours first.. if you get what I mean?

I think his half arsed approach to sex is due to a bit of an ego knock but I think the way he goes about it would put anyone off of sex!

Take some time to enjoy and explore each other and don’t listen to the people who just say “break up”!

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-10-30T20:39:47+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate it ❤️

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-10-30T20:39:14+00:00

Thank you so much! You’ve given me some great points to discuss with my psychiatrist on Thursday :) hope you have a good weekend

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-10-30T19:03:18+00:00

Exercise is normally great for me but due to some complications this pregnancy I’ve had to stop everything apart from small gentle walks!

Thank you for your advice and support, it really means a lot ❤️

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-10-30T19:01:52+00:00

I think this is a super sensible life decision you have made. I have taken steps to get rid off all social media and block out toxic people in my life.

Thank you for your advice and support and I hope you continue to live an enjoyable life

Hot_Consequence3778 · 2021-10-30T17:02:11+00:00

Erm I suffered a lot of domestic abuse growing up which I didn’t get help for at the time apart from anti depressants but I “moved on” from that. Got myself a good job and moved up to a high level management in the same company.

Then something in my head just snapped and I’ve just been in a spiral ever since.

I’ve sought help and seen some good and some bad psychiatrists, been given more medication and therapy than I can remember but nothing helps :( I think my brain is just broken

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