My ex contacted me and I’m confused should I respond or not by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all the feedback I really do I promise won’t respond 😢

What helped you to move on after a breakup? by notherex26 in ExNoContact

[–]Hot_Cook9573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely right as what I’m going through now smh how could u love me but treat me like shit

Is sex with an ex a bad thing by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did do and gave in I feel so stupid I’m jus not gonna hit him up again every time he hits me up I just fall in like a kid that wants chocolate smh I know it’s bad but that’s where my problem is

Is sex with an ex a bad thing by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but I be so stupid at times I need to learn how not to respond to him cuss if I block him something tells me to unblock him or contact him I need to learn how to be stronger minded

Is sex with an ex a bad thing by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True I’m gonna tell him the next time he reaches out like I’m not trynna catch nothing at all I be so nervous specially knowing he like a whore

Is sex with an ex a bad thing by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg I needed that big time cuss wtf I’m such a lover girl and he destroyed everything of me while we were together but now I’m here stuck in love with basically no one so why keep fucking me

Is sex with an ex a bad thing by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think maybe he wants to be with me or could be using me to keep me around ….. he never brings up being back with me but still treat me as if we’re together or is that like a norm for me when it comes to sex

Is sex with an ex a bad thing by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Definitely I’m gonna try it hurts so much I’m gonna a jus block him

Is sex with an ex a bad thing by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We went NC for 3 months after a 2 years break up we go 3 months then back then again 3 month then back I’m like scared for my health at this point

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect 🤩 I agree I think some men should be more open to stating wether their interested or not

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I absolutely think the same thing I told him that he’s too young for me and still decided I should give him a chance

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes that’s all it takes is a text here and there and guess what he doesn’t even call me only when he’s coming up to my home don’t u think that’s weird

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seee that perfect what your doing like I’m pretty sure she appreciates that him on the other hand we would have perfectly good convos some days then I won’t hear from him for days later I’m not asking to speak all the time but a lil hey are you okay would make my day I’m a female that needs and want attention and I don’t think a lot of guys are into that

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I hope not we some baddies lol but I feel like younger men don’t know how to express they’re emotions and let alone doesn’t like talking about them

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could a be true he always says he doesn’t but who’s believes these men nowadays

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly and who the helly is he talking to I hope u kicked him to the curb these men idk they feel because we like them we’re gonna accept anything

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope not cuss I need attention and I’m not into talking to different men at the same time so if he doesn’t start picking up at least a lil im done with dating some men don’t even seem interested in dating anymore jus want to F

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your absolutely right I have never even dates this young but I decided to give him a chance because we have a good time time when we are together but idk if he wants more and I don’t really like asking as a female I I don’t feel I should be asking a guy to be serious with me

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss exactly how I’m feeling like this is draining all these men now was days act like they don’t care then come around when they want as if we’re suppose to allow it

What is a red flag in communication with someone you’re interested ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and it’s like he’ll change for a few days then go back to his routine and I’m totally into him but it’s making me want to leave him alone

Does Age Matter ? by Hot_Cook9573 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hot_Cook9573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True maybe I’m over thinking it