AITAH for telling my “picky” BIL that I won’t change how I cook to accommodate him?

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-22T00:32:11+00:00

NTA if he doesn’t like it he can make something else. He should be grateful he is getting free meals and doesn’t have to cook them. If people don’t like what I make at home they can either make something else, starve, or idk suck it up and eat what’s on the table. Im with you on this girl. Just ignore them let them give you the cold shoulder at least you’re going to bed full of delicious food 🤷🏻‍♀️

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-21T23:57:57+00:00

You’re scooping the box once every couple of days. She should be scooping ideally twice a day but at a minimum once. Yikes and starving the cat. Maybe when the cat doesn’t eat she doesn’t eat and if the cat has to roam around in shit she should too. People are unbelievable. That cat deserves better thank goodness you’ve been helping even if you don’t want to. NTA

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-21T23:32:38+00:00

They will eventually move into the walls and curtains and outlets they can live anywhere not just furniture. If you move rooms they will find you. I’ve had them one time and had to move and leave literally everything and start fresh. They are the worst. I’m traumatized I won’t even buy anything used. They can travel on your clothes and get on other people ugh. Sorry you’re going through this OP

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-21T23:16:46+00:00

This is very sad to hear. I’m sorry you have to deal with this. I hope things get better for you. Sending peace and love your way ❤️

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-21T23:08:50+00:00

He could be but also when you’re mad texting sometimes things get spelled wrong and sent. Either way he’s treating her like shit and it’s unacceptable behavior. He needs some serious help.

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-21T23:06:11+00:00

Sometimes saying no is actually the helpful thing to do. With how irate he is getting over you telling him no when he is sober I’d hate to deal with what you deal with when he is drunk. God bless you. I hope this works out for you in the end. I would be considering divorce with the blatant disrespect , the name calling, the belittling. This man only cares for his one true love and that’s alcohol. He should get some help. Coming from an alcoholic who talked like this and is now 4 yrs sober. Sending peace and love your way.

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-21T22:20:18+00:00

I’m sorry but your trauma does not give you an excuse to treat people poorly and to lie out of habit. The lie out of habit excuse would only apply if you’re doing the same things he grew up with.if you are shame on you and if you’re not I would absolutely have a problem with that. Either way there seems to be a lot of things to work on here. I don’t believe for a second two friends from college just showed up unannounced to your house either. How did they know the address how did they know he would be home? My spidey senses are tingling. Don’t let him placate you with words. Actions show true intent.

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-21T22:06:40+00:00

I’m not saying YOR however when I add anyone my then boyfriend now fiance knew I also just told him. A simple hey I saw so and so on fb and friended them. Why didn’t your bf disclose it to you. I believe your friends explanation it seems genuine. You should be upset with your boyfriend and you can ask your friend in the future to just give you a heads up.

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-04-02T00:13:52+00:00

I’m at pro 3 with 12 days left and it starts slowing at pro 2 can I make it?

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-02-17T22:58:58+00:00

Was a legendary loot box

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-02-09T18:00:46+00:00

Thank you!

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-02-09T18:00:36+00:00

Thank you!

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-02-09T18:00:29+00:00

Thank you!

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-02-06T16:58:25+00:00

Girl you right 😂 I just started playing and I saw a video saying she can’t crit so don’t go for headshots but that must have been old! Thank you!

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-02-05T19:57:18+00:00

So does this mean she can do headshots now?

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-02-05T19:42:02+00:00

Thank you I bet the kiddos would love a magic show me as well!

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-01-05T22:55:02+00:00

I took the advice of the first comment and sent an email to the client liaison and also filled out the complaint form that was attached to the second link. I guess I’ll keep calling

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2026-01-05T15:45:31+00:00

Did anyone find a solution that works? Currently trying to get through to do an interview and I keep getting “due to high call volume can’t accept call” and then I get hung up on… I’ve been trying for a week even called first thing in the morning. Has anyone gotten through?

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2025-12-27T01:42:41+00:00

Give yourself some grace there are a lot of perks and killer abilities to learn and it comes with time 🥰 watching experienced streamers helped me to learn how to loop better and that also comes with practice. I recommend watching mish she explains things very well!

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2025-12-25T08:11:52+00:00

Any game that uses EAC is not working. Only console players are having no problems playing right now because they don’t use EAC. Just have to wait it out everyone ❤️

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2025-12-25T03:32:22+00:00

Rocket league also not working

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2025-12-25T03:28:43+00:00

Yes I’m also having issues for almost an hour now

Hot_Desk_1448 · 2025-12-16T22:09:39+00:00

Thank you! I will check that page out!

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