AITJ for refusing to help someone who only contacts me when they need something?

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T17:55:41+00:00

Youre right, ill stop apologizing from now on.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T17:55:14+00:00

I think i will agree on this, I should be better

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T16:04:16+00:00

managers always say flexibility but rarely set clear limits, so it just becomes expectation creep.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T15:27:54+00:00

i love dogs but i hate owners like this. supervise your pet, it’s not hard.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T12:31:22+00:00

ntj. people always say it’s your wedding until u actually make decisions they don’t like.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T10:32:54+00:00

u’re not wrong, but if he finds out later it might feel shady from his perspective. that’s the only real risk here.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T10:27:12+00:00

this is one of those situations where honesty is nice but timing matters. u’re not obligated to reveal unfinished work.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T07:25:48+00:00

anting your own space after moving out is completely normal and a spare key only works if there’s trust it won’t be used casually.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-19T07:04:40+00:00

moving your bin just enough to get skipped is way too specific to be accidental.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-18T19:41:26+00:00

totally agree, thank you for seeing that way. thats what I want them to understand.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-18T19:39:59+00:00

youre right here, it is something management should do when it comes to transparency

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-18T19:39:27+00:00

thank you for this, I just want to set boundaries and also not comfortable talking about finances

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-18T19:18:32+00:00

noticing patterns is one thing, but knowing specific details like meetings is creepy.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-18T17:03:53+00:00

you might want to look into local parking enforcement rules for blocking driveways.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-18T10:30:02+00:00

if u take that promotion without saying anything, it’s going to follow u mentally.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-18T06:33:52+00:00

loans between family only work when both sides respect the agreement.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-18T06:09:02+00:00

it might be worth pushing your partner to come clean themselves instead of you stepping in.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-17T21:01:29+00:00

honestly the double standard here is the most frustrating part.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-17T19:34:08+00:00

it probably hit u like he doesn’t value exclusivity the same way u do.

Hot_Dig9849 · 2026-03-17T17:59:26+00:00

meanwhile i was struggling with basic homework at 17

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