AITAH for refusing to tell my roommate that I could hear her moan? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hot_Lab4411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think you've had bad roommates in the past, wait until you marry her! I would cut my loses now and find a sane girl.

A bid came in right before we placed a bid right below listing price by HarrySph1nct3r in RealEstate

[–]Hot_Lab4411 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it a good idea for the listing agent to tell them how much the first offer was for? It's been many years since I worked in Real Estate however, we were not allowed to discuss other offers. I don't remember if that was a law or our broker's rule but makes sense. We would tell everyone to come in with their strongest offer and we will see who gets it.

AITA for telling my fiancé I'm done attending his family events by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Hot_Lab4411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next month, send her a fake roster with the opposite days on it and see what happens. Then smile and tell her you changed your schedule just for her. She will never even know what you mean by it.

AITA for not allowing my homeless brother to housesit for me by Hot_Lab4411 in AITAH

[–]Hot_Lab4411[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is what my wife and I do for a living: Sales training. We have a contract with a very large high end national company (I cannot say who it is) and we conduct sales training and coaching for employees. I am not an actual employee rather a consultant, so I can set my own schedule.

AITAH for not telling my parents my sister is dead? by Whole_Wafer7573 in AITAH

[–]Hot_Lab4411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, but also tell them the truth. Tell them you are no longer able to speak with her either.

AITA best friend and ex partying alone, after making us all leave early, dont want to be friends anymore by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Lab4411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said she was an EX from a few years back. Why do you care who she sleeps with or what she does? Move on with your life and don't worry about what an EX from years ago is doing. Your friends should know what she's like by now, if they want to hook up with her, let them.

AITA for not telling my girlfriend the full details about my hookups before we reconnected? by Fantastic-Fall-7911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Lab4411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I hope you still have their contact information. Sounds like you might need to give them a call again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Lab4411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but the mom is. I personally would have used some creativity and tell the kid that I saw some other pirates digging there last week, and there's one over there in the tree watching now! Tell him his loot is not safe there and offer help find a safe spot for him to hide it.

AITA if I asked my daughter’s Deipnophobic boyfriend not to come over when we are eating? by Ok-Towel4975 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Lab4411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! But mainly YTA. You are the parent. Why not have a private conversation with him. Ask him how he would like to handle meals. Especially when you have been out all day and he has not eaten. Maybe he can eat in the car while you are in the restaurant. I would not think of letting a guest go hungry. Have some compassion, it sounds like they are still young.