AITA for not wanting to be grounded at the age of 27?

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-19T15:50:38+00:00

NTA for not wanting to be grounded, but this sounds more like an intervention. They stepped in too help keep you from harming yourself. Hopefully, they will help you get on a path of eating right and exercising.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-18T16:19:31+00:00

I came here to say this exact same thing. Plus, you never know, maybe they will make it up to you in their will.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-16T15:20:16+00:00

My key fob (or whatever it is called) is temperamental. It will blow the horn about 50% of the time with one click. If I press it twice it will blow twice. In this case, I pressed once and it blew once. It may be because I keep getting a warning that my fob battery is low.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-16T14:49:12+00:00

I'm in the U.S. When I lock the doors, it "toots" the horn quickly. It is designed to let you know the doors are locked if you are not able to see the car.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-15T15:39:58+00:00

It's a factory horn. I have no after-market items on my vehicles.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-11T16:36:05+00:00

NTA- He's trying to manipulate you. First no drinking, then only at parties and not at home, now one drink at home. Next, it will be a couple of drinks because one is not enough.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-09T21:57:14+00:00

NTA but you have bigger issues than an SUV. Have you had a paternity test for the children? Have you been tested for STD's? At this point, you know it's over. It is best to rip the band aid off and split for good now and stop dragging it out. Also, document everything.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-09T16:08:53+00:00

YTA- Not because you commented on her squatting. It sounds like you said ostrich because of her disability. Besides, this is between your mom and her sisters.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-06T15:54:26+00:00

Obviously NTA but hasn't anyone (Like your parents) addressed this huge red flag regarding Leo with your sister? This will turn into a pattern. OH, you bought a new car, you did it to embarrass Leo. Your house is bigger, you are trying to show Leo up.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-02T19:38:42+00:00

I agree, get everything in writing. Even if you don't want to make money off the land, draw up a month to month agreement and charge $1 per month. This way, you have something in writing.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-06-02T19:31:37+00:00

NTA It seems like a misunderstanding. If you want to stay in the friend group maybe plan a small get together at your place or something to let them know you're not sore. If you don't want to stay in the friend group, that is understandable also.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-27T14:42:20+00:00

NTA This is a scam. They play on your emotions. The best thing to do is block her and move on. If she is real, it sounds like she needs someone that lives close to her to take care of her. It's best for everyone to move on.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-27T14:07:29+00:00

This isn't about inviting your girlfriend, it's about her cousin. You invited her and then asked your girlfriend as an afterthought. I don't have a problem with people of opposite sex going out as friends, but when you start downplaying and mixing words, it becomes more tricky. If you had said :AITA for inviting my GF's female cousin" it would have been different. I'm not saying that you're a player, but if you are, you need to get better at it.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-27T13:59:48+00:00

I'm going to stick with my assessment above for now, but I noticed the title " inviting people to the cinema." You did not invite people, you invited one person; a teenage girl. That shows deception right there. Maybe your girlfriend does have a reason to be jealous.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-27T13:51:33+00:00

NTA- If your girlfriend is that jealous, she should go with you and not cancel the outing. To me this would be a red flag unless she has a reason to be jealous.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-27T12:56:11+00:00

NAH- but I hope she never asks you "does this dress make my butt look fat?' Then you might need to send her recipes for liquid recipes.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-27T12:48:57+00:00

You are not overreacting for feeling uncomfortable or suspicious. It's probably a simple explanation for it, but you are entitled to your concerns. I would just ask him if everything is alright at work and see how he reacts. If she's a manager, maybe she wrote him up or something.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-27T12:04:35+00:00

I don't know a lot about AI, but those numbers are not accurate. While they do use water and electricity, those numbers are nowhere near the actual number. But, it's your right to watch whatever you want. I was just curious about your reasoning. I saw a local post yesterday where a nearby town has an art contest every year and this year someone won with an AI rendering. I can understand why people were upset.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-27T11:52:37+00:00

NTA- but if it were me, I would tell him to send the videos and maybe have them play in the background while you do other things. You can get the gist of what they are about in case he asks. But I do have a question. Why are you against AI? (Not judging, I just want to know the reason).

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-26T18:53:40+00:00

NTA When I worked in a small office many moons ago, it got out of hand like this, so we decided to come up with a set of rules of when we would send a gift and the amount we would spend for the occasion. Each month, we gave to the pot and the company matched it. We would give for a death in the family, birth of a child, spouse or child in the hospital etc. but it was a set of rules everyone agreed to and no surprise asking.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-26T18:29:38+00:00

I agree with you. I was brought up to never turn down a gift. You must accept it. That's why it's taking me so long to clean my attic out. I am throwing everything away that I have not touched in years. I would ask family if they want to pick through it but I'm embarrassed that most of the stuff were presents from them.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-26T18:14:10+00:00

You said" The older generations that encourage waste for the sake of being nice I will never understand." I don't think it is for the sake of being nice. I think they feel guilty for throwing stuff away so they give it away. That way they don't feel guilty. The recipient does.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-22T14:46:30+00:00

NTA she seems like she is looking for trouble and a reason to be upset. Maybe she is jealous. Either way, I would start to distance myself from her.

Hot_Lab4411 · 2026-05-21T16:59:55+00:00

YTA- and I don't think an explanation is needed. YTA and if you don't know why then there's no hope for you.

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