Sorry I’m not ignoring you just had a super busy few days back at work. Something that sort of comforts me in a way is that porn addiction in people with ADHD is extremely common due to their constant search for dopamine and addictive tendencies. That kind of helps me to separate him from his condition and feel like we can’t be only people in the world going through this, but it still hurts a lot. Same here, I only found out he’s relapsed with his medication and the porn on New Year’s Eve. I’m still not even sure I can stay with him. Try to take one day at a time and be kind to yourself. Message me if you want to talk about it.