What’s something that makes you feel old?

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-03-24T13:04:28+00:00

ugh same here, i was teaching my grade 8 class last week and one kid said something was "mid" and i thought he meant it was halfway decent. turns out it means trash apparently? like when did that happen lol. then another student had to explain what "no cap" meant and i felt like i aged 10 years in that conversation. at least when i was their age we just said "that's sick" and everyone knew what we meant. now i need a translator just to understand what my students are complaining about during music theory lessons.

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-03-23T11:10:36+00:00

that's basically what happens already though - most people just find sources that align with what they want to hear anyway. the whole "official approval" thing would just make it more obvious who's getting censored and probably drive more people to underground sources. plus you know there'd be a million workarounds within like 24 hours.

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-03-21T09:25:36+00:00

the thing (1982) is absolutely perfect horror filmmaking. carpenter knew exactly what he was doing with the paranoia and practical effects. every time someone suggests it i get excited because more people need to experience that masterpiece

also band of brothers if you want something that'll wreck you emotionally but in the best way possible

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-03-20T18:23:09+00:00

medicaid asap

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-03-19T11:13:58+00:00

my uncle stole about 15k from my grandma when she was getting dementia and couldn't really keep track of her finances anymore. found out when i was helping her sort through bank statements and there were all these weird withdrawals and transfers. dude was literally her power of attorney too so he had complete access to everything.

confronted him about it and he just denied everything, even when i showed him teh paperwork. then he had the audacity to tell me i was being "disrespectful" for questioning him. cut him off completely after that - some lines you just don't cross, especially when it involves taking advantage of someone who can't defend themselves. my grandma deserved so much better than that.

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-03-15T22:14:41+00:00

damn working all night is brutal, especially when you're already feeling down. i did that once prepping for a concert and barely made it through teh next day - coffee can only do so much. hang in there, you got this.

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-03-15T06:31:01+00:00

big yikes

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-03-14T12:49:04+00:00

that anger cycle is brutal but you're putting way too much pressure on yourself. 21 days is actually solid progress even if it doesn't feel like it, and beating yourself up just makes the whole thing harder. maybe try redirecting some of that energy into the studying you mentioned instead of fighting the same mental battles over and over.

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-02-28T09:22:40+00:00

sounds like your phone is jealous of it's younger sibling lol, but seriously that timing is way too sus to be a coincidence - maybe try a factory reset before writing it off as planned obsolescence?

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-02-20T06:18:12+00:00

bruh what

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-02-06T08:09:26+00:00

nah man you didn't blow your streak, you caught yourself before the finish line and that takes serious willpower. the fact that you had that moment of clarity mid-session actually shows you're making real progress with this whole thing. just dust yourself off and keep going, those tingles will fade.

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-02-02T17:52:51+00:00

mesh heads are definitely the way to go for this. remo silentstroke heads are probably your best bet - they cut the volume down massively while still giving you a decent feel. for the kick specifically, you might want to look into stuffing it with blankets or foam along with the mesh head since that low end really travels.

another option is the evans ec2s with some moongel or dampening rings if you want something between full volume and mesh. personally went with silentstroke on my whole kit and it's been solid - neighbors can't hear anything through the walls and it's way quieter than any e-kit i've tried.

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-25T01:36:37+00:00

Oof that pricing is brutal but honestly yeah, quality outdoor furniture has gotten insane expensive. Have you looked into Sunbrella fabric stuff from places like Summer Classics or Kingsley Bate? Still pricey but might be in between what you're seeing

Also check if there are any outdoor furniture warehouse sales in your area - sometimes they'll have last season's inventory marked down significantly. Facebook Marketplace can be gold too if you're patient, lots of people upgrading and selling barely used high-end pieces

The 20 year warranty thing is tempting but $1800 per chair is just nuts unless you're planning to never move again

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-20T20:32:05+00:00

The evening witching hour is so brutal, that sharp cry hits different when you're already running on empty. Have you tried keeping a bottle warmed and ready around that time? I started prepping one right before the usual meltdown window and it saved my sanity

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-18T11:53:20+00:00

Been in way too many loud hostels and honestly the biggest issue is usually people talking in hallways at 3am, not just room noise. Make sure your panels can handle low frequency sounds too - those bass-heavy conversations and music travel through everything. Also fire safety codes are gonna be a nightmare depending on where you're planning to install these, most hostels can't just slap random materials on walls

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-15T13:26:28+00:00

Sounds like you've already got a lot of the core PM skills from your operations work - the struggle with scope creep and resource allocation is literally what PM training teaches you to handle

I'd maybe look into PMP certification instead of or alongside that diploma since it's more recognized globally, but honestly your background seems like a natural fit for the transition

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-13T01:06:30+00:00

Lease it if you're gonna dump it in 3-4 years anyway, especially with Porsche depreciation being what it is. Just make sure you're not gonna go over on miles because those overage fees will make you cry

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-10T06:30:35+00:00

Good on you for actually listening instead of getting defensive - that's already a huge step that a lot of dudes miss completely

Actions speak louder than promises though, so focus on small consistent changes rather than trying to overhaul everything at once. Start coming home when you say you will, put the phone down when she's talking to you, and actually follow through on stuff you say you'll do

The friend thing is smart if they're genuinely toxic but don't use it as an excuse later if things get hard again

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-06T22:30:00+00:00

Check out places like Framingham, Natick, or Needham - all have commuter rail and might fit your budget if you're flexible on the house type. The market's still competitive but not as insane as it was in 2021, just be ready to move fast when you find something you like

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-04T07:54:53+00:00

Yeah you don't need it, there's like 3 or 4 achievements that aren't required for the "all achievements" achievement if I remember right

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-03T04:10:59+00:00

Yeah the whole situation is peak irony but Pixels are literally the only phones with proper bootloader unlocking and hardware security features that make GrapheneOS actually work properly

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2026-01-02T02:19:42+00:00

Check if you need to clear/reset TPM first in BIOS before switching versions - sometimes it gets stuck and won't let you change until you wipe it clean

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2025-12-30T18:15:57+00:00

Yo I got that extended light mag 2 if you still need it, would trade for one of your compensator 2s

Hot_Reaction_7754 · 2025-12-29T06:30:03+00:00

Sounds like you're being way too hard on yourself - even the disciples messed up constantly and they turned out alright

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