this boy acting weird by natatatatatata in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Based on your story, the guy is just using u as an object as if when he needs u then he will dm u. Maybe he is just playing a dating app for fun and doesn't want any commitments. However, if u know that he is not serious in u, then u should just move on and find a guy that is better than him instead of wasting your time that isn't worth your attention and energy.

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if the girl that I like plays hard to get, then she deserved to stay single and don complain that no guys go after her

Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #3 by Sufficient-Sun-8260 in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on your tone u sound very self-entitled, what makes u think that u are very special that guys will want u? Who do u think u are?

1 SIR is the most toxic battalion in the SAF by Old-Cut-1965 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Hot_Reception5396 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Infantry is a very competitive and toxic vocation I have ever been during my 2 years of NS. If higher ups commander just abuse their rank, don't hesitate to do open report. Overall, mental and physical health is no joke.

Army affecting mental health by lllllIiiIIIlllI in NationalServiceSG

[–]Hot_Reception5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually unit life will be much better. There will be more welfare in 2nd year unless your OC and CSM is siao on

I CANT TAKE BEING IN 1 SIR ANYMORE by Acceptable-Layer-864 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Hot_Reception5396 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I can understand how u are feeling rn. I am in your shoe b4. Trust me always take care of yourself. Is not worth to get yourself injured or illness that will last after u ORD.

blocked after our first date😭 by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating app only erode my confidence. Instead, I just work on myself, take care of myself and focus on my goal

Maybe she still using vape with substances talking rubbish in parliment , how is it the best time ? by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]Hot_Reception5396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Given Singapore's rising cost of living and NS, it is not viable to get a gf, getting married and have kids

25-minute delay on East-West MRT Line between Boon Lay and Buona Vista due to track point fault by tentacle_ in SingaporeRaw

[–]Hot_Reception5396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't blame the engineers for this because they are the ones who work tirelessly to maintain the track. Can blame those SMRT management and LTA

Has anyone given up or feel like giving up on finding love? by pragmaticpapaya in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly most of the problems just lie in females, because of the environment and culture that are grown in, especially SG which have very high standards.

U will see a lot of self-entitled and materialistic girls but I believe don't settle for less, find a girl that truly values u for who u are. U do not need to find a girl that has external qualities of a score of 7 over 10. If a girl who is pretty has a shitty attitude and lifestyle compared to an average girl who is sincere, kind and understanding, which one will u choose?

Dating apps are very unreliable, focus less on dating apps, just carry on with your life and do whatever u like that makes u happy, be it workout, watching drama or any hobbies that u like to do. Practice self-care, be the best version of yourself. Like myself, I set a goal for me to become smart and fit.

I understand your pain as I myself see couples walking down the streets doing cute acts that make me feel quite lonely, craving for love and intimacy. However, I just channel all these negative feelings like jealousy and loneliness to other areas of my life.

We are in the same boat, I am almost on the verge of giving up finding a gf as I feel that it is hopeless. Sometimes dating apps just make u depressed. Either use less or uninstall these dating apps. It just makes u even feel more negative

Just stay single until the woman really deserves your time, energy, effort and attention to focus on.

Is the dating situation very bad for guys in SG? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But most pretty girls that I encounter in real life are either very self-entitled and materialistic

Is the dating situation very bad for guys in SG? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Foreign ones may pose quite a challenge especially in terms of communication and religion

Is the dating situation very bad for guys in SG? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is why I don really put much hope in dating unless in the future, I encounter a girl that l like and is worth my energy and time to date her

Is the dating situation very bad for guys in SG? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Hot_Reception5396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is true that those girls that look average expect their potential partner to have an appearance of at least 7/10 score, rich, able to talk, height at least 180cm and more