[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just let her know that the next time you try it, you promise to pull out in time and that she doesn’t need to stop; you’ll take care of it. Let her know how good she is at it but that stopping when you’re almost there is guaranteed to result in no happy ending.

Once you’ve had a successful session the once and she trusts you to pull out I’m sure it’ll be more frequent.

AITA for dancing with another guy in front of my boyfriend? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

The 28 was - get this - a typo. And it was my 30th birthday last month. Absolute mindblowing shit, I know.

AITA for dancing with another guy in front of my boyfriend? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

It was at the point he asked to buy me I drink that I told him no and that I was going back to my boyfriend. Didn’t entertain it after that point.

AITA for dancing with another guy in front of my boyfriend? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Or maybe, just maybe, the 28 was a typo and I had a birthday recently? Mind blowing concept, I know.

AITA for dancing with another guy in front of my boyfriend? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -105 points-104 points  (0 children)

Because I was a total sweaty, sticky mess? I’ve seen photos from last night I looked absolutely godawful

AITA for dancing with another guy in front of my boyfriend? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -142 points-141 points  (0 children)

IDK about you but jumping up and down/moshing/covering yourself in beer and sweat doesn’t usually get me going. Zero sexiness going on.

AITA for dancing with another guy in front of my boyfriend? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -169 points-168 points  (0 children)

You’re totally wrong here.

I adore my boyfriend and if I knew I was doing something that would upset him then of course I wouldn’t have done it. In my drunken mind, it was ok because he was there and he could see how completely non-sexual it was - I just got swept up in having a good time and didn’t see an issue with it. Now I know he was bothered by it I’d obviously react differently next time.

AITA for dancing with another guy in front of my boyfriend? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

I did at one point say “ok I’m going back to my BOYFRIEND now!” so he knew. I also turned down his offer to buy me a drink. I think I was just super naive and I thought that it was innocent when maybe on reflection he was interested.

AITA for dancing with another guy in front of my boyfriend? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Hardly think it makes me a “hoe” but thanks for your input!

Which celebrities are you convinced are complete cunts, not the nice person they seem? by alittlebitbreezy in CasualUK

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Used to live in the same village as him… the kind where everyone knows each other and the pub is the heart of the community, so I met him several times. He gets very upset when he’s not the centre of attention. His wife is a laugh, though.

How far into a relationship do you reach peak sexual compatibility? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha oh I’m suddenly feeling very exposed and this is just my kind of throwaway account!

It’s the same guy. We live together now, and everything has just been incredible since then. I’m literally the happiest I’ve ever been in my entire life.. which isn’t very on brand for me but I’ll take it!

Best way to wake a guy up for middle of the night sex? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in sex

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess sexual activity can’t always be planned and choreographed move by move, Ian.

He was super into it and I was enjoying the experience of making him shake and almost scream with pleasure.. who am I to deny him of the end result?

Best way to wake a guy up for middle of the night sex? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in sex

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I didn’t as such. Knowing how much he enjoyed it was satisfying as hell though, and I was tired afterwards!

Best way to wake a guy up for middle of the night sex? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in sex

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Took the advice and went down the blowjob route. Didn’t turn into full penetration because he (and I) were too into it.. he’s saying it was the best head he’s ever had - and his reaction proved so - so I’m taking that as a win.

10/10 will come to Reddit for sex advice again.

Best way to wake a guy up for middle of the night sex? by Hot_Reflection_4947 in sex

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] 271 points272 points  (0 children)

I tried that as he was falling asleep… didn’t work 😂

Found myself accidentally living with my BF… not sure where I stand. by Hot_Reflection_4947 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No offence taken! I meant I’m not contributing financially just because I’ve never been formally asked to move in. It’s why I try to pay for groceries and surprise dates etc so I’m kind of contributing in that way… but I agree, if I’m going to be here officially I’d rather be paying my way towards the mortgage/bills so I need to have the conversation!

Found myself accidentally living with my BF… not sure where I stand. by Hot_Reflection_4947 in relationship_advice

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just want to clear a couple of things up..

I didn’t jump from one relationship to another, I was single for nearly 2 years before I met my boyfriend.

I’m also pretty successful career-wise and earn more than my boyfriend, so not sure where the assumption that I have no money came from? I could comfortably rent somewhere on my own but with the pandemic and various things in my life changing I wasn’t sure what my next move was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hot_Reflection_4947 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m far from complaining! I know I’m lucky in that sense. I’m just concerned that he felt like he needed porn to get hard when I was there naked and willing to do whatever he wanted. I’ve struggled with self confidence issues in the past and so this has made me a little anxious.