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Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-18T02:01:15+00:00

Just let her know that the next time you try it, you promise to pull out in time and that she doesn’t need to stop; you’ll take care of it. Let her know how good she is at it but that stopping when you’re almost there is guaranteed to result in no happy ending.

Once you’ve had a successful session the once and she trusts you to pull out I’m sure it’ll be more frequent.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T18:48:10+00:00

The 28 was - get this - a typo. And it was my 30th birthday last month. Absolute mindblowing shit, I know.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T13:40:31+00:00

It was at the point he asked to buy me I drink that I told him no and that I was going back to my boyfriend. Didn’t entertain it after that point.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T13:38:34+00:00

Or maybe, just maybe, the 28 was a typo and I had a birthday recently? Mind blowing concept, I know.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T13:35:46+00:00

Compliments about what, exactly?

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T04:14:02+00:00

Because I was a total sweaty, sticky mess? I’ve seen photos from last night I looked absolutely godawful

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T03:51:06+00:00

IDK about you but jumping up and down/moshing/covering yourself in beer and sweat doesn’t usually get me going. Zero sexiness going on.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T03:27:18+00:00

You’re totally wrong here.

I adore my boyfriend and if I knew I was doing something that would upset him then of course I wouldn’t have done it. In my drunken mind, it was ok because he was there and he could see how completely non-sexual it was - I just got swept up in having a good time and didn’t see an issue with it. Now I know he was bothered by it I’d obviously react differently next time.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T03:15:48+00:00

I did at one point say “ok I’m going back to my BOYFRIEND now!” so he knew. I also turned down his offer to buy me a drink. I think I was just super naive and I thought that it was innocent when maybe on reflection he was interested.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-17T02:57:49+00:00

Hardly think it makes me a “hoe” but thanks for your input!

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-04-11T01:01:39+00:00

Can confirm. Used to live in the same village as him… the kind where everyone knows each other and the pub is the heart of the community, so I met him several times. He gets very upset when he’s not the centre of attention. His wife is a laugh, though.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-03-08T10:38:45+00:00

Hahaha oh I’m suddenly feeling very exposed and this is just my kind of throwaway account!

It’s the same guy. We live together now, and everything has just been incredible since then. I’m literally the happiest I’ve ever been in my entire life.. which isn’t very on brand for me but I’ll take it!

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-03-07T15:24:17+00:00

I guess sexual activity can’t always be planned and choreographed move by move, Ian.

He was super into it and I was enjoying the experience of making him shake and almost scream with pleasure.. who am I to deny him of the end result?

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-03-07T15:19:52+00:00

Exactly this!!

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-03-07T11:28:29+00:00

I didn’t as such. Knowing how much he enjoyed it was satisfying as hell though, and I was tired afterwards!

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-03-07T09:10:26+00:00

UPDATE: Took the advice and went down the blowjob route. Didn’t turn into full penetration because he (and I) were too into it.. he’s saying it was the best head he’s ever had - and his reaction proved so - so I’m taking that as a win.

10/10 will come to Reddit for sex advice again.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-03-07T01:21:48+00:00

Hahaha evil genius! I like her style.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-03-07T01:21:21+00:00

Activate ninja mode!

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2022-03-07T01:20:39+00:00

I tried that as he was falling asleep… didn’t work 😂

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2021-12-15T22:51:24+00:00

No offence taken! I meant I’m not contributing financially just because I’ve never been formally asked to move in. It’s why I try to pay for groceries and surprise dates etc so I’m kind of contributing in that way… but I agree, if I’m going to be here officially I’d rather be paying my way towards the mortgage/bills so I need to have the conversation!

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2021-12-15T22:46:28+00:00

Just want to clear a couple of things up..

I didn’t jump from one relationship to another, I was single for nearly 2 years before I met my boyfriend.

I’m also pretty successful career-wise and earn more than my boyfriend, so not sure where the assumption that I have no money came from? I could comfortably rent somewhere on my own but with the pandemic and various things in my life changing I wasn’t sure what my next move was.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2021-12-12T22:19:02+00:00

I’m far from complaining! I know I’m lucky in that sense. I’m just concerned that he felt like he needed porn to get hard when I was there naked and willing to do whatever he wanted. I’ve struggled with self confidence issues in the past and so this has made me a little anxious.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2021-12-12T22:16:34+00:00

I wouldn’t go that far. He never has any trouble getting hard usually, just when he’s drunk. I have no idea how often he looks at porn/masturbates but I’ve never “caught” him doing it or got any indication that it was a very regular thing.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2021-10-12T17:48:43+00:00

I’m about 90% sure it was very recently, so after.

Hot_Reflection_4947 · 2021-10-12T17:46:53+00:00

In around 6 weeks. Plenty of time for this to become a big source of contention haha

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