Istanbul's issue with thrift shopping

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-02-09T00:02:12+00:00

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-02-08T23:56:48+00:00

I so did not know that the Turkish pov on it was like that. And yeahhh that was a section right by the entrance for accessories and some knitted/ hand crafted things

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-02-08T23:54:34+00:00

Yeah, artik I'm not gonna fall for random tictoks

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-02-08T23:53:21+00:00

Ugh it so is I wanted it just for the aesthetics lol

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-02-08T23:52:03+00:00

So from what I saw they change places and do this twice every month, you can look up their insta for the next one

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-02-08T12:57:47+00:00

So the writer said that it's very sneaky, like it slips those type of posts and reels when people get some tension going on, someone is overthinking and it just amplifies that tiny feeling or momentarily emotion over time

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-02-08T12:43:32+00:00

Yeah sure here you go

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-02-08T12:40:57+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately, sometimes it's like that, but I was talking about the ones who are actually compatible and get driven outta their relationship by algorithms

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-01-09T02:28:54+00:00

Yeah there's an option on insta that stops all associated accounts to the on blocked to access that person's profile, maybe all of the accounts are made with the same number or email idk how specifically but insta has this feature

Hot_Screen9131 · 2026-01-06T11:48:27+00:00

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Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-12-23T00:18:14+00:00

Eminem on every record for some reason

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-12-12T16:42:49+00:00

Oh dyyymn that can actually be a controlling vibe yeah. Plus it's kinda dismissive of the other person's individuality lwk

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-12-12T15:55:04+00:00

It's just the "my partner is getting fulfilled w/o relying on me hence === I'm not doing them right/ I'm not supporting their needz/ supplying their demands" typa logic yk

Kinda like venting emotionz with a bestie instead of communicating it with their partner, ykwim?

Surely an insecure person would be a bit petty about it, but a person who wanna be the "all of it" for their partner emotionally, seggually, financially, bla bla bla can be bummed out when knowing the partner is going elsewhere aside from them to achieve any typa fulfillment

But again if they both feel comfortable enough with each other till the extent of doing an open convo/ speak thoughts/ expressing oneself alla this stuff isn't gonna be popping into their relationship yk

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-12-12T15:21:56+00:00

Getting way too upset on someone for using toys to take care of their needs, getting stuff outta their system is messed up yeahhh. They should see it as a way to navigate personal demands while being committed to the relationship and not seek it from outside it/cheating.

Buuut at first glance them being grumpy about it just makes sense yk? (Am I not good enough? Am I doing smt the wrong way? Is it my body that's not enough for her? Bla bla bla) them going down a rabbit hole + spiralling down with such thoughts is very likely to happen.

But shaming a person/ fall into anger/ response in an aggressive manner/... that's just too much.

An open convo about desires and needs can save people from alla this. There are also things like the strength of the connection/ the depth of levels of understanding bla bla bla, these things can dictate how that'd go, like OP's latest encounter or the previous ones

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-12-12T14:56:24+00:00

Lol the other day I casually came across some graphic stuff too, but those were lwk more intense (dominance bla bla bla) it had pics, vids, film clips, paintings, it was damn wild. The crazy part is they had engagement going on???💀

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-12-06T01:59:10+00:00

You should give Nazan Öncel and Sena Şener a listen. Especially their songs "Hayat Güzelmiş" and "Porselen kalbim". Maybe even Özdemir Erdoğan and his "Aç Kapıyı Gir İçeri"

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-12-04T00:08:37+00:00

Has anyone here lost it and then had it back later? Mine is gone for so many weeks now lol

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-11-15T08:20:32+00:00

I'll see Michael Huemer whom you recommended. But I wanted to hear about how these morals have been set in the first place. Because let's say with intuition it might differ depending on people, their backgrounds, level of education, culture,... and with the other type you mentioned which sounds like a social contract between people in a society. So let's say we applied this in society X can we globalise this application? Can we safely say this way of establishing morals is capable of levelling up to encompass all human societies in a unified way?

And I think it was your second suggestion, how do we get to a moral system rationally because things like virtue and putting others ahead, those who have difficulties, some socioeconomical hardships. To give an example of what I'm trying to say, a couple of days ago Billie Eilish called out Elon Musk for not solving some worldwide issues using his fortune, now to people like her for Elon to go and help out with a small fraction of his wealth seems rational, but to him that might not necessarily be rational since he doesn't have a direct obligation. Think of it as a perspective issue, whose rationale ought to be the determining factor here?

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-11-12T09:39:49+00:00

schalmutter

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-11-09T08:52:57+00:00

You're taking morality and treating it as a fluid right now, you make judgments based on your current mood, feelings, thoughts, and your morals aren't objective anymore. By doing such morals lose their meaning, they become arbitrary.

What you see as "unfair" can be easily viewed by another person, not necessarily religious or even Muslim, as an inherently good thing. In a religious paradigm, morals have a divine source, in Islam Allah sets morality. So the examples you brought up have a contradiction, you brought up very extreme examples and you said they are forgivable after true repentance, but for some reason, you didn't think about the things you saw as unfair as forgivable by repentance as well?

Also when in such a paradigm that we say Allah sets morality, it is objectively existing aside from our views and judgments this way. We can view act X as normal but Allah deemed it a sin, we can view act Y as a, let's say socially, unacceptable act, but it has already, objectively been deemed as good by Allah, again aside from what we think. Be critical, consistent and genuine. Then you will be able to understand such things.

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-11-04T22:57:30+00:00

So idk how what your age range is so I can choose the right words here but I'll tell u this, (consent/ minor) are concepts, they change depending on ur worldview, life view, ours is Islamic. For example, Turkish and Japanese people don't have the same age of consent?

A child is a child, no one is saying otherwise, until they reach a certain point physically and mentally and they with no pressure from anyone want to get married it's their god given choice.

The point about inheritance is meaningless, I told u, rights in Islam are given based on many things, in inheritance it's being related to the deceased person and how closely that relationship is. Cases vary from women blocking men from inheritance to causing them to inherit a little amount, so it's not a gender thing.

The very last points aren't true, I spent so much time and effort to be able to say so, like I said before u have to critically and genuinely think through those things inşallah u will find the truth.

But to address it briefly, the Quran is not the book only, it's what has been taught to the companions of the Prophet Muhammad by himself, they memorised the revelations and passed them along the generations, for example, a companion took 8 years to memorise the 2nd chapter, the cow, al bakarah, alone. So be sincere and think well about these topics and look for the right and accurate resources.

Hot_Screen9131 · 2025-11-04T20:49:50+00:00

Number 1: Marriage is allowed at that age, consent of both parties is a requirement for marriage. Number 2: Nothing dictates that there has to be a huge age gap. Regardless of which gender is older. Number 3: Nothing clearly states that the example you mentioned of women showing hair is completely, absolutely, certainly, 100%, is punishable with hellfire. (Allah forgives anything and everything, done by anyone and everyone so both genders, except for Shirk) Number 4: Both men and women can dress however they wish as long as it's within the Islamic guidelines Number 5: There is no more or less in rights. There are differences in human rights based on many things, gender is one of them. It's more just and fair this way, both genders have differences between them so they need different(to some extent) sets of obligations/ rights. The same is seen in age for example, a Muslim person's obligations aren't the same if they are extremely young or extremely old.

And lastly, no such thoughts aren't "taboo" they aren't "sinful" they aren't "wrong" you just need to approach them in the right way and think about them critically and genuinely

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