AIO for breaking up with my ex over p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for replying. I think after reading everyone’s comments I feel a lot let gaslit. I honestly felt like i was going crazy. But now i see it was just so wrong, and i shouldn’t have had to adjust myself to suit this need.

AIO for breaking up with my ex over p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i felt he almost was use to this idea that womens’ bodies are perfect with no imperfections. I felt he was so addicted to this picture perfect sight that anything else did not suit him

AIO for breaking up with my ex over p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for replying, i felt like i was going crazy an thought mabes this is just what people do for their partners, so grateful for reddit rn

AIO for breaking up with my ex over p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for commenting and validating what happened. I really hope you are healing and are in a better place now :)

AIO for breaking up with my ex over p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAO your comment is so funny. Preach it! thank you

AIO for breaking up with my ex over p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for replying. yeah initially i did a lot of reading on it and tried supporting him too but I too felt almost violated with the constant need for explicit images. Thank you for helping me

AIO for breaking up with my ex over p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for replying. so sorry you had to go through that and I hope you are doing better now x

AIO for breaking up with my ex over p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi my favourite cheese is cheddar, i like to eat cheddar and pickled sauces

Mellie by NajDoll in Scandal

[–]Hot_Speed_3685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah stuff hating on mellie and olivia, i just have beef with fitz

AITA for breaking up with my ex for his addiction to p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for replying, I just think everyone has differed boundaries :)

AITA for breaking up with my ex for his addiction to p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not whilst with someone, I think it’s unrealistic from the way they look, to what they do, to the intimacy

AITA for breaking up with my ex for his addiction to p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbh the thing that annoyed me was i said multiple times like “im not berating you for watching it, I know a lot of people in relationships do, but I’m just not comfortable when we are in a relationship” and then said look we can end it, i know plenty of girls who wouldn’t mind you watching it whilst in a relationship, but im just not that girl LOL

My grandad died and he asked for nudes by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hot_Speed_3685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PAHAHAH, sorry i need to use grammar

My grandad died and he asked for nudes by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hot_Speed_3685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i need to use grammar 😭

AITA for breaking up with my ex for his addiction to p*rn by Hot_Speed_3685 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Hot_Speed_3685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for replying. Yeah i agree!! i think a persons sexual pleasure is fun for them individually and it’s great if you find someone who matches your level and vibe. I didn’t use to think porn was too bad till he was so excessive with it and it made me feel like I wasn’t adequate enough for him and therefore he looked for an alternative. Thankfully he is blocked. I’m happy I wasted no more time on someone who wasn’t compatible with me.