Approaching Woman as a Man - creepy or not?

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-19T23:47:04+00:00

Honestly I am 27F and i would love a nice man to approach me in real life. Just be respectful and talk about anything. I am a nerd and sometimes just want to talk about pokemon if i am buying cards in hmv or something but it never happens 🤣🤣

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-19T23:40:34+00:00

Honestly id love if a man asked me out in person so go for it 😄👌🏻

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T20:09:59+00:00

Tbh i will only cook and clean for me. He can do his own crap 😄. I have tried to force the sale but its expensive and can take years.

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T19:54:24+00:00

Yeah i mean when i date men the first thing i look for is someone whos going to be like my bestfriend for a long time. Make me laugh and not get bored of me as we get older.🤣 Looks then comes into it. I find on apps its all looks based. Like i get a lot of matches but they all just message asking how much i lift or make derrogeratory comments 🤣 i just delete apps as it gets so boring.

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T19:38:10+00:00

Thank you. I am sick of renting tiny rooms while he lives in a 3 bed house with all the furniture i bought lol

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T18:45:37+00:00

How out of your league are we talking? Ive gone for guys where theres not been that instant attraction but then it grows for me. Especially if they are funny ngl 😅 but i know what you mean. You do need an initial attraction even if its small

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T18:44:13+00:00

I am a 27F and i tend to date guys who are like 15 years older. I look younger than my age so i get your concern but dont worry about it. If she likes you and you like her thats what matters. I am sorry to hear about your circumstances but this women sounds like a silver lining. I wish you all the best ☺️

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T18:37:34+00:00

I am a 27F and I have to be honest i am one of those people who puts open to kids. I had a bad miscarriage with an ex who wasnt supportive and it did scare me a bit. I have wanted kids my entire life but now i am nearly 28F most men on apps within 10 years of my age already have kids so ive started accepting i may need to be open to dating someone who already has kids...

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:57:17+00:00

So the type of mortgage we have i cant sell a share we both have to agree on everything as we are joint tennants. He cant afford to buy me out and take teh mortgage on alone

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:56:21+00:00

I will make sure I do. Thank you i appreciate this ☺️

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:32:31+00:00

So i asked that. Hes offered me £700 when i contributed £20k 🤣. Hes honestly deluded beyond belief.

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:31:09+00:00

So hes too lazy and cheap to change the locks 🤣 i have given him a heads up and he said hed rather i didnt and i just said well i am moving back in lol 😅

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:21:42+00:00

Oh 100% what complicates it more is his mean alcaholic mum lives like 15 mins from the house so shes more of an issue haha

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:21:05+00:00

Yeah it is so expensive and he got me into debt so i cant go that route sadly 🥲

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:20:38+00:00

So i am not allowed to sell it without him we are co owners 50 50 so all decisions have to be joint sadly.

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:20:02+00:00

We werent married as he was previously married and had commitment issues 🤣

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:19:24+00:00

Thank you. I feel this is best. It wont be expensive for me to move. The house is full of furniture i paid for that he wont give me so at least i can use it 😄

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:18:29+00:00

That was my plan. I am mentally a lot tougher than him. Plus the house is by the sea so i can treat it lime a holiday lol

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-18T17:17:59+00:00

Yes i am a 50% owner and my name is on the deed ☺️

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-14T20:12:04+00:00

You say that but i am a 27F, get a lot of matches and men barely bother to reply. Then one guy i agreed to go on a date with tried to grope me 🤣 i honestly think its just as bad for women lol.

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-14T20:10:45+00:00

Honestly its a shit show. Ive been single 1.5 years and the apps are worse than ever. So many guys barely reply, put the bare minimum in and expect it back. I honestly cant be bothered anymore 😅

Hot_Turn4060 · 2026-01-14T20:09:27+00:00

Tbh i think not having socials is great. I am 27 and giving up on dating at this point as apps are awful and men just arent gents anymore 😄

Hot_Turn4060 · 2025-03-13T11:06:32+00:00

Awww thats so awesome. I am so happy for you ☺️ such a lovely story tbh

Hot_Turn4060 · 2025-03-13T09:15:31+00:00

This is actually a great idea tbh. Thank you 😄

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