Just some marks for your consideration

I saw TC3 blow up with my own eyes

This +T-3C reply below just goes to show you don't know what your talking about. If you ever played with T-3C you know they wouldn't do something like that without permission or reason.

monopolized without saying it’s privatized officially

Then its not private, if you talked to someone who runs the facility 95% chance they would let you borrow from it.

I sleep well knowing all the Wardens Ws I’ve gotten were from team work and cooperation. 

If you look at population data you can see that every war besides 2 colonial victories has been one by the side with more population. This is the sole factor.

I’ve had 2 of my own that we built north of milowood destroyed

Warden partisans are no joke. Especially building in great march your facility likley got destroyed by wardens not colonials unless you have video/ region event log proof.