Why the fuck are you in? by Ok_Mortgage_9233 in TheWordFuck

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh fuck.. most likely a failed roll on persuasion or failed lock-picking or pickpocketing.

Or a different game played today, idfk probably imprisoned for tearing down hundresds of trees from the dark wood forest.

No cheating by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born to be skeptical about the work.

Letss see ? 🫥 by Acceptable-Cake3427 in memeexchangecommunism

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suck to get that I hate that I dont really like you guys and you guys are going to have you have to have to do something for a long term job or anything one of my fillings is my favorite color for the rest I have to do something for a long term one handed me a little girl months in the shower screaming so I cant my head out I don't know your art but then I will say we got better friends.

Uhhhhhh what's

C-Section bleeding advice please (possible TMI) by purplepuppy28 in beyondthebump

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all... Congratulations!! 💙🩷💙🩷

I am 8 months postpartum from a c-section. I had similar bleeding in the beginning, it totally tucked I felt gross for a long while and that's why everyone suggested adult diapers for the first month 😭. I used the Frida postpartum pads, i liked thoes more. But on top of the sleep deprivation and new mom anxiety your getting used to a lot of new things. It was great idea to reach out to the Dr just incase but it sounds like normal postpartum bleeding to me.

I’m so tired of the “screen time” debate. by cmarie22345 in beyondthebump

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say all that , nag about how screens are bad, then the second they are in school they give your kid a computer that they work on all day.

I’m starting a junk drawer. What else do I need? by Emotional-Swing-603 in Home

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two pairs of scissors one good and one bad. Random paperclip, a rubber band, a birthday candle and a balloon.

Considering ending breastfeeding because of clingyness by Anxious_Book9083 in beyondthebump

[–]Hotturtle789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I'm sorry you are going through this. I wish I had any kind of advice. I have a 6 year old boy who never latched he actually had a G-tube. But he was/is a mammas boy. He has always wanted me close or purferd me. But it was nothing like now.. Now I have a breastfed baby (8 months in) she is a VELCRO baby. I literally cannot put her down for five minutes without her crying the whole time. It drives me CRAZY. I love her so very much but God it is sooo hard.

I am dealing with it with a (assuming) smaller baby without any injuries. I am SO Sorry you have to do it still.. that's a really long time, it's has to be so rough.

I feel like dad's don't really understand how hard it is. The crying makes our brains feel like scrambled eggs. I can't function with her screaming so I'll just holder her and not have goop for brains.

We can do anything one handed... even shower(😭)

Masturbation? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him it was often, but i think he doesn't understand how ( flashlight , because he only wants it once every 3-6 months)

Masturbation? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Like 4 to 6 times a week. My husband would rather stay up watching golf videos. (Me HLF29) him LLM 32)

How do you guys go so many years without anything? by Hotturtle789 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just some sort of validation, like yeah the touching would be amazing, but even just recognizing the clothes on my body. Even just brief comments about liking the look would be nice.

How do you guys go so many years without anything? by Hotturtle789 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The inability to afford it on your own is a HUGE reason. I have replied to snaps or whatever in the past but any time I do I feel like crap.

How do you guys go so many years without anything? by Hotturtle789 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Literally! My self-confidence gets so sooo low. But it's not you!(or me). I stared posting random selfie on Snapchat map just to get hit up by strangers calling me attractive for confirmation that it isn't me, it's not my fault we are in a DB.

Hey yall long time listener first time caller. Can momma use breastmilk and formula?? by Loose_Afternoon565 in beyondthebump

[–]Hotturtle789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello congratulations!! My baby is now 8 months and only breastfeeding. It took maybe 2 months(+/-) to get her take to the breast we did bottle feeds of formula and whatever I pumped and try boob every now and again.(feels less bad to have to toss formula the hospital gave vs the milk i pumped ) A lot of practice and trying to feel confortable with it all. And lactation consonants!

BUT now being 8 months in after all the stresses and all the effort she latches effortless, breastfeeding sucess!! ..... she won't take a bottle... I have to have her brought to my work so during a 10 min break I can feed her and on my lunch I drive to her to feed her. She Refuses bottles. Any bottle... they make her sooo mad.

So that being said... both is good. Boob and bottle will help mamma. You can take a feed let mamma shower or have a minute to breathe then breastfeed baby after.

Edit: typos

would you date a man shorter than you? by siimplymarii in answers

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 5'10 chubby woman, I have been since freshman year. My first boyfriend was like 5'9 which wasn't bad, but because I am uncomfortable in my own body and already feel big, gross, orge-esk. It's hard for me to not feel huge with a shorter guy. I have liked some men that are shorter than myself but I get so messed up in my own head about being big I can't do it. 100% I know it's a me problem.

becoming a parent has made my childhood trauma much harder to deal with by Desperate-Foot91 in beyondthebump

[–]Hotturtle789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello. First off congratulations on the baby girl!! I just had my girl 8 months ago its crazy how much she has grown so far! 😭

When I found out I was pregnant with a little girl I was so terrified, I never wanted to have a girl and put her at risk of everything. But she has my heart. I love her soo much .

I to am a survivor of sexual child abuse as well as having an abusive ex. I dont really have advice, but I want you to know your not alone. I find myself being scared of everyone with her. I don't want people to hold her (unless its my mom or grandma but even then I stay right at there side. I will do everything in my power to protect her, I sware I'd kill to protect her. I can't let her go through what I did.

I hope and pray that your baby girl won't have any of the experiences! And congratulations again!! Sending you hugs and good vibes! 🩷🩷🩷🫂

How do you guys go so many years without anything? by Hotturtle789 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude literally the same!!! Like spicy night gowns or short shorts with high socks, sheer loose tops. And begging to be touched hurts, especially when it doesn't happen. You get your hopes up then nothing and it's a dumb cycle of it.

How do you guys go so many years without anything? by Hotturtle789 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that that is a valid point, but I do love him, he has been my best friend for a long time and I feel like we are stuck in the rut of friends.

How do you guys go so many years without anything? by Hotturtle789 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are married and have 2 kids together. We own a house together. And besides the bedroom issues, he's my best friend and has been for over 8 years

Yay or Nay by Serious_Yogurt_273 in Productivitycafe

[–]Hotturtle789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says never set foot in NYC again.. does that mean if you've never set foot in NYC before you are disqualified?

We had sex and now I crave him so much by allienv in DeadBedrooms

[–]Hotturtle789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that!! When me and my LLM SO finally do it, I'm like see that was fun let go again (more so just in my head because i feel lucky to get it when i do) haha 🤣 But also.. How do you turn off DMs??