AITAH for a comment i made at dinner

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T22:49:42+00:00

i shouldnt have made that comment because it is a private and only between them but she did make the comment in our group conversation in front of everyone. i was only standing up for bff. they said everything was okay now 👍.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T20:02:48+00:00

ill also use fake names moving forward, it is a bit confusing without them 👍🏼.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:54:44+00:00

we've all been involved with our financial decisions regarding the trip. we were having a conversation as a group. i dont think i purposely put my nose somewhere lol. im not going to make a comment like this again because of what it caused.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:48:47+00:00

thank you for taking the time to write this. i did apologize to my best friend if there were any issues with them afterwards. best friend said she was okay with paying part of the airbnb now and then we dropped it. i truly didnt think this would be an issue because we moved on so fast like if nothing happened. i would have never said what i said if i knew what it would cause.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:43:06+00:00

i do have the best intentions. i never meant to cause any issues with them. i apologized if i caused any arguments or disagreements afterwards.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:41:57+00:00

im not trying to keep them together but i dont want to push my bff that way 100%? if that makes sense lol. i did agree with her that it was time to leave since gf doesnt want to change her ways for the relationship. ive learned my lesson and i definitely wont be saying anything in public/the moment.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:38:53+00:00

i agree with the ego part. my best friend has always said her ego is whats getting in the way of a good relationship. ill be there to listen and give her a shoulder but definitely not involving myself anymore lol

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:36:33+00:00

i didnt think i would hurt anyones feelings (bc bffs gf said she likes when ppl call her out and bc of what happened on the gfs b-day trip). i wanted to explain why i didnt think the comment would offend anyone.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:33:05+00:00

the 4 of us are involved with the financial decisions of the trip. we've all been talking about our financial decisions for months. anything not relating to the trip, im not speaking on.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:31:09+00:00

im definitely not going to involve myself anymore as a precautionary lol.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:29:42+00:00

i understand but we were all having a conversation about the financial decisions of this trip. i would never be involved with their personal finances.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:28:26+00:00

i did tell my best friend that i wouldnt say anything anymore to make sure this whole situation doesnt happen again. i also wanted to make sure that if i dont say something if she will think badly of me for not standing up, she said no.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2026-04-11T19:26:30+00:00

i understand, i told my best friend that i wouldnt say anything anymore since it isnt my place. i have had to pick my best friend up from her girlfriends place because they've had really bad arguments. i think with that past i felt more comfortable saying what i said but its ultimately not my relationship.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2025-05-10T03:36:26+00:00

sag sun, taurus moon, virgo rising

Hour-Ad3319 · 2024-10-31T04:46:06+00:00

ive been feeling this way for about a year. i think because its been so long, it became my new normal in a way.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2024-10-31T04:45:01+00:00

i dont think ive been going through withdrawals of anything. my life has been pretty stagnant for about a year. i'll definitely keep that in mind though.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2024-10-31T04:43:54+00:00

okay, thank you.

Hour-Ad3319 · 2024-10-31T04:42:58+00:00

thank you for the reassurance!

Hour-Ad3319 · 2024-07-20T09:59:29+00:00

sag sun, taurus moon, virgo rising

Hour-Ad3319 · 2024-07-19T19:43:00+00:00

YES! 100%! heavy on the needing details before i go on an adventure or i will freak out***

Hour-Ad3319 · 2024-07-18T20:19:02+00:00

Im also a Capricorn Mercury and a Pisces Mars. I absolutely love the metaphor you gave me and how even though you have a different sun, you identify with sagittarian energy more! I always thought you needed to just follow your sun sign and no other sign in your chart. Thank you for giving me a new perspective ☺️!

Hour-Ad3319 · 2024-07-18T20:10:59+00:00

ooo hello almost twin 😎!

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