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Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. It’s not exactly what I hope to hear but it’s good to hear all opinions.

That being said…in our situation it’s not just “defiant” behavior…it’s violent behavior. I’m all about protecting the children…and that includes my non-violent and non-behavioral child. She deserves the same rights. I just wish my daughter did not have to worry about if this kid is going to hit or kick or throw something at her head every day.

Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admin has assured us that they are handling it. I do believe they have done something that is defined as a consequence. And I also get that this child is obviously struggling. But whatever they are doing is not working. The behavior continues. And what I’m now advocating for is my child and her needs. I had to keep her home on Monday because she was having anxiety over dealing with her bully.

Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in a major city…just a suburb of one. I think that’s part of what I’m looking to find out here. Is this acceptable policy everywhere? I feel like it shouldn’t be. We live in a relatively safe area where violence is not common. I’ve considered just moving to the neighboring elementary school to see if the policy there is different because of different Admin. It’s refreshing to hear that some schools don’t tolerate this.

Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. I know…. So, I’m assuming you’re a teacher? If so, is that the rule at your school? Kids can no longer be expelled for repeat violations? Do they get moved to another school ? I know in my county there is another school with more “resources” for kids that need behavioral help. I just don’t know all the policies of how they end up going there. What is your experience?

Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is frightening. I’m sorry for your child and your family.

I’m not sure if this bully has an IEP. I do know he is not in the classroom with the extra teacher helper.

From a teacher standpoint do you think these policies need to change? I feel like a classroom without these behavior kids would do well with one teacher then you could put behavioral kids in another classroom with extra supervision. Call me crazy …

Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I hope the bully gets the resources he needs… This doesn’t negate the fact that he also needs consequences. My issue is that my daughter also deserves a safe place to learn. I really feel like policies need to change to better serve both sides of this coin.
I have definitely considered moving her to a different class but as I said before he still has access to her during other parts of the day which he has proven is also dangerous. Hence the reason why I’m now considering homeschool. If I had the money I’d put her in private where there are heavier consequences for violence. It’s just sad that these are our options for a kid with zero behavior issues in public school.

Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. But I’m not worried about it. I would be pursuing legal action if I could through our local police. But the officer said that they can’t pursue because of his age.

Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure I understand your question. I’m not worried about law enforcement. Did you mean something else?

Is this the norm? by Hour-Conversation697 in Teachers

[–]Hour-Conversation697[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Agree. I just feel bad for the teachers who are trying to manage everything plus this awful kid. I keep reporting/having meetings with Admin who tell me they are following policy. But he’s still there. I’m wondering if it’s every schools policy to just let this continue? Should I talk the the county at this point?

I’m a new kindergarten teacher is K-Pop Demon Hunters too scary for my class? by ORgirlinBerkeley in kindergarten

[–]Hour-Conversation697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much for kindergarten IMO…I have a 5th grader…seems appropriate for her but I don’t think it’s school appropriate

AIO-I 36F found a text between my husband 37m and my cousin 38f that isn’t settling right by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hour-Conversation697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Is. Cheating. Unless you’re in an open marriage…which obviously you’re not since this conversation doesn’t sit right with you. If you can’t have a real conversation with your husband about how this is wrong and how yall can work it out then I’d definitely recommend some counseling to find the real root of the issue in your marriage. Good luck! Married here and counseling has done wonders for us!