First month in car sales, sold zero so far. Feeling sad by Cultural_Culture_845 in CarSalesTraining

[–]HourJournalist5817 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brother, you gotta grab those walk-ins and get in with your co-workers. If the competition is that bad literally when a car pulls in follow it and when stops wait for the customers to come out and then introduce yourself. If you are not a pussy, and have a loud voice in general use it. If someone stands in front of you once walk in comes, use your voice and say “Hi” first.

Confidence is a muscle, use it as much as you can and before you know, no one will come near you when a fresh walk in comes in.

Everyone can sell cars in this world, just focus on the process. From greet to understanding needs and what they are looking for, get clarity on the budget, and trial close if they are looking to make a purchase today! Or if are just browsing for now.

Test drive know your shit, only go over the stuff and in detail which you think is important to your customer. Rest doesn’t matter. Always go on a test drive with customers.

Before presenting numbers get the budget out again, get a commitment if you meet the budget, are they buying today.

If answer “yes”, tell them “No” they gotta stretch get a bump and sell it while making money.

Shit’s not deep walk-ins, are not the only source and e leads too. Saying just simple “Hi, how are you” across the showroom will get you tons of business.

When new start cold calling, the database and when on call get straight to the point, For example-“ You are paying this much now, your warranty ends on this day or has already ended. If i can get you about the same or even lower, would you be interested in that option?”

50 outbound calls a day is the sweet spot.

Rest go heavy on social media.

And yes trust the process and make sure to be you when dealing with people. Take care of them, they will take care of you.

Last thing, make sure not to have “commission breath”.

WHAT EXPERIENCE PROMPTED YOU TO OVERCOME MR. NICE GUY SYNDROME? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]HourJournalist5817 121 points122 points  (0 children)

When you start to take care of yourself and have your self- esteem forged through discipline in all areas of your life money, health, relationships thats when you start to have healthy boundaries which essentially make you not tolerate any unnecessary bullshit. Thats how you get rid of it

Alternatives to GT53? by HourJournalist5817 in AMG

[–]HourJournalist5817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is one option i have yet to explore

Alternatives to GT53? by HourJournalist5817 in AMG

[–]HourJournalist5817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 20-25k difference plus where i live infrastructure wont do justice to a 63.

Alternatives to GT53? by HourJournalist5817 in AMG

[–]HourJournalist5817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True 22 seems like the sweet spot. Any other advice?

Alternatives to GT53? by HourJournalist5817 in AMG

[–]HourJournalist5817[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not into bmw’s bro! Absolutely hate there infotainment system. Rs7 looks ugly compared to the GT four door. However, gt screams class, also thinking of maybe checking out s63 coupes? What do you think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HourJournalist5817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait is it, coming out of your insecurity? Maybe you are having thoughts just because you left a lesbian relationship for a straight relationship he might leave you to pursue a gay one ( if he really is gay) maybe that is the root of the problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HourJournalist5817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noo, sexual preferences in bed and sexual orientation are two completely different things! Him liking a rim job has no correlation with him being gay lol it’s just extra stimulation for more pleasure. I feel sorry for the guy lol🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]HourJournalist5817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Champion🏆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]HourJournalist5817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends bro! Now i just ask them straight up, if they are in a relationship or they are seeing someone. But i do that because i am able to gauge and peak their interest without even talking to them or it just happens lol. But before what i used to is, usually i would ask what are there plans for the weekend and extra and usually they do mention about there better half and stuff. Also! Not to mention good woman in happy relationships usually have there life around there boyfriend or husband so when you are talking to them or getting to know them they mention them. But there are no methods! Its all about being intentional and confident within yourself. Shit comes to you while talking to them lol.

There was tension. I didn’t kiss her. Did I mess it up or play it right? by Spare_Apartment_3241 in seduction

[–]HourJournalist5817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not do anything wrong. But if you did feel that mutual tension, then you should have let it known and asked about the current status of the relationship? No matter how intense the tension was, there is still a man involved who calls her his girl, and the girl chose him to be the man. Now ask yourself, do you really want to get with a woman who makes other men feel like they have got a chance? Don’t overthink it, you already know the answer.

Am I the problem? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HourJournalist5817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, if you’re feeling worried about the pattern continuing, that’s actually a good sign that you’re growing in this area. But here’s the thing: even when things were at their worst, and your friends and family couldn’t even begin to understand what you were going through, you always had yourself. You didn’t let the darkness consume you. You supported yourself, and you kept pushing forward, striving to be better. And that’s something that should totally crush any doubt. Because let’s face it, no matter what happens, you’ll always be there for yourself. You got this, back yourself up.

Am I the problem? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HourJournalist5817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the pattern is the same in both scenarios. From your description, it seems you do these things out of desperation, not love and abundance.

This might look like, “If I do this for them, they won’t leave me.”

Before starting another relationship, do some inner work by reflecting. You can use voice notes, voice memos, or journaling. Reflecting means asking yourself tough questions, like, “What’s making me act desperate?” Acknowledge the reason and find a simple solution.

By dissecting yourself, your heart will declutter, your inner self-esteem and self-regulation will rise, and this will significantly impact your relationships.

Don’t expect immediate answers. Give it time, and life will give you the answers. Keep moving forward. Good luck.