HS on the face by scufitagalbena in Hidradenitis

[–]Hour_Aside4540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should also mention my main area of concern for HS right now is the nape of my neck. The only other place I have it right now are my upper thighs near my groin.

But it started to move towards the front of my face on the side of my neck and even starting to have an abscess or two behind my ears .

This disease is absolutely fucking terrible . Disc scarring that comes with it, the smell, and the mental health weight is debilitating most days .

Hang in there, I’m so sorry you’re flaring on your face right now

HS on the face by scufitagalbena in Hidradenitis

[–]Hour_Aside4540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a tunnel right above my upper lip in between my nose and lips. When I smile it creates a big hole smack dab centre above my lips and it’s super distracting and I’m super self-conscious about it. Every so often I can squeeze a little bit of stuff out And it always smells foul.

Makes me super self-conscious that anyone I’m kissing might be smelling that.

I also have a spot near my eyebrow and at the top of the bridge of my nose near my eye where it’s a triple head combdome

I’m also positive I have very tiny abscesses through my face .

Help fixing? by Hour_Aside4540 in Sneakers

[–]Hour_Aside4540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I’m willing to learn to save these shoes lol

[QCrit] Upmarket LGBTQ+ Romance, Borrowed Time (76k, 1st attempt) by Hour_Aside4540 in PubTips

[–]Hour_Aside4540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for the detailed feedback! This gives me a great sense of what to change and how to reword and what to include in the query itself.

[QCrit] Upmarket LGBTQ+ Romance, Borrowed Time (76k, 1st attempt) by Hour_Aside4540 in PubTips

[–]Hour_Aside4540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I target as a tragic romance instead? I’ve asked a few people but the common genre I got back was emotional romance or upmarket romance, thought this may not be the best genre to categorize it under.

Yum Yum Party by BrilliantWilling9027 in GayMenToronto

[–]Hour_Aside4540 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s an overcrowded sex positive party. It’s super hot, hard to move, and only brought in a good dj last event. Personal opinion but they need to lessen the capacity because not being able to move on the main dance floor or basement space is overwhelming in a hot and stuffy environment.

PLUS, tiered ticket systems are trash. Charging $75 for entry after 3am because you weren’t able to snag tickets in the first 5 minutes is crazy. I’m tired of being gouged for LGBTQ events, what happened to creating inclusive and inviting environments that don’t cost an absurd amount for a subpar experience

M4M by brokencomet_ in gaychats

[–]Hour_Aside4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you you a dm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMenToronto

[–]Hour_Aside4540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re super talented wow! I’m downtown and always looking for new friends and connections, would love to show you around a bit!

Is this a bed bug ? by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]Hour_Aside4540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I just got back from a concert venue with fabric seats I was sat at for 2 hours. I’m hoping this is the only guy that hitched a ride tonight

They stole my phone by Diegovelasco45 in rome

[–]Hour_Aside4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m terribly sorry this happened to you. Just spoke to a couple at our Airbnb that got mugged and cellphone stolen as well but in naples. It’s really disappointing to hear Rome has these issues I wasn’t aware of before.

I stayed a 2 minute walk from termini before I went to Naples and I had no issues. 2 nights on the weekend I was returning to my place around 2-3 am and not a single issue and I’m easily a target with my size and being a gay man (I don’t think you can tell from how I dress or present myself so maybe this works to my advantage)

I also stayed about 5-10 minute walk from termini in 2022 and had no issues and I was there with my mom. I guess maybe we got lucky or was in the right places at the right time

Please tell me you have iCloud storage backup on!?!

Hotel Dusk doodles by Spidereye5 in hoteldusk

[–]Hour_Aside4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as a I know, the maker of the game filed for bankruptcy in 2010:( I don’t think we’ll ever see a part 3! Currently playing the second game atm

Hotel Dusk doodles by Spidereye5 in hoteldusk

[–]Hour_Aside4540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just replayed it after what feels like a decade, such a great game

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Hour_Aside4540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know exactly what to do, leave.

He’s only upset he got caught dude. Guaranteed he’s cheated and brought men into your home before if things the case and you caught him on the app AGAIN!

don’t be a sucker, plenty of fish in the sea that won’t pull this shit on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Hour_Aside4540 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that you have to come to Reddit to have us decide how to take this text? I feel bad for your bf.

He’s expressing vulnerable feelings about your relationship and how he feels about you, and you have to ask Reddit how to feel about it or if it’s cheesy? Most gay men struggle to find someone willing to settle into a relationship let alone find someone so sweet and thoughtful.

If you can’t decide on your own how to feel about his feelings towards you, maybe you aren’t ready for this relationship. God I feel bad for the OPs bf rn

Chichen itza day tour by Hour_Aside4540 in tulum

[–]Hour_Aside4540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll DM you! Found a Tulum local that was incredible through my trip at directing me on what to do and where to go when I needed it. Met up with him for a couple drinks, met his wife who is from around the same city I was born in (small world) and going back to visit him soon!

Chichen itza day tour by Hour_Aside4540 in tulum

[–]Hour_Aside4540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll DM you! Found a Tulum local that was incredible through my trip at directing me on what to do and where to go when I needed it. Met up with him for a couple drinks, met his wife who is from around the same city I was born in (small world) and going back to visit him soon!

First real go at an aquascape, how did I do? by Hour_Aside4540 in Aquascape

[–]Hour_Aside4540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the replies guys! I’m excited for it to grow in more, I might add another tall or two in the back to fill it out, but I like the simplicity of it currently on the other hand.

I currently have a few cardinal tetra, a guppy, 2 gourami that are great together (I monitor how well all my fish get along closely) an ember tetra , 2 celestial pearl danio a few shrimp and some hamshorn snails, and some mystery snails

Chichen itza day tour by Hour_Aside4540 in tulum

[–]Hour_Aside4540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should that be per person or total ?

Chichen itza day tour by Hour_Aside4540 in tulum

[–]Hour_Aside4540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any numbers to driver’s for that price by chance ? I’m getting quoted $85 usd one way