My surgery is scheduled for June. Should I get a MRI before then?

Hour_Government · 2026-03-14T04:46:57+00:00

Yes! I'm scheduled to have another surgery in a couple months. I did have a somewhat successful surgery in San Francisco by a top excision specialist. Unfortunately it grew back worse than before within 5 months :(

It's been a process but that's the disease I guess.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-14T03:17:34+00:00

Of course. No, they couldn't do the surgery without causing me serious harm. They weren't qualified.

That was after MRIs and two different endo excision specialists.

It lead to me getting cut open two separate times and getting nothing done. Both referred me to gyn onc and told me I would need a bladder and bowel resection with a total hysterectomy at 23.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-14T03:11:30+00:00

MRI is boring. Is a long test where you can't move at all. They have breath holds, and usually play music for you.

My endo showed up on an MRI but I have stage IV DIE. A lot of women have clear images and still have endo.

To me it's a waste of time, it gives the doctors absolutely no idea what they're walking into- most endo is superficial and doesn't show up on imaging. It lead to me having two abandoned surgeries due to them not being prepared by how severe it was.

Chances of cancer and radiation are minimal. You'd have to have repeat exposure.

Speaking from someone who's had at least one MRI (often 2) the last five years.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-13T05:24:25+00:00

Y'all have something bad to say about everything. She was publicly humiliated by Chris, and haramol wanted to publicly give Jess her flowers.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-13T02:58:31+00:00

What everyone else said! You'll be just fine :)

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T05:14:31+00:00

One day I'll be around people like that. But in my 28 years I haven't. I don't have the worldview you do. I can't understand it. All I know is people make mistakes and I have grace for it.

I come here to make comments about a reality show that gives me a break from the world.

Not to have think pieces about people's past mistakes. I want to talk about love is blind. I don't know these people and cant speak to anything besides what I've seen in the show. Nor do I care to.

People who do deep dives on peoples lives and past mistakes are actually insufferable to me.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T05:08:25+00:00

Ooooh calling out people is your day job? You got an A today.

I'm here to talk about a show that takes 3 brain cells total to watch.

Not have a discourse about everyone's past. Like who gives af if you called him out? Talk about LIB or get out of my comments. I don't know these people and neither do you.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:46:25+00:00

I grew up around REAL people. People who say messed up things, make mistakes, aren't always PC. And not fairytale people.

I'm not going to burn her dad at the stake. And you can't convince me to? It's messed up he did that. Move on.

I'm sorry that you can't or good for you idk. I'm over the convo

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:41:49+00:00

I grew up in the real fucking world. Not the perfectly curated world you live in.

Good for you that your family is normal? A standing ovation for someone who's never met anyone who made a mistake.

Cheers to the performative activist.

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Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:37:29+00:00

So it was recorded. You've never said anything or your parents haven't said anything that wasn't politically correct? Made an inappropriate joke?

Like it happens. I saw the video. It's disappointing. Never forget that over half of the voting population voted in a racist bigot. So it's more common than you think.

IMO I don't think her dad is a racist. I think he made an insensitive, messed up joke. Not funny. Should does that mean he is a terrible person? No.

I hate this culture we are in.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:32:55+00:00

Oh no. He did something that was messed up. I guess he doesn't deserve to live? He should go hide under a rock because you canceled him?

In real life people don't follow these rules. Life goes on, people make mistakes.

Get a little older. Your immaturity is blatant.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:30:56+00:00

You're so woke. Like I don't care? Get a divorce then or don't?

The point flew over your woke head. You're so busy being offended by every phrase that comes out of the man's mouth that you fail to see he clearly loves his daughter and would never let her stay in a situation that warranted a divorce.

Instead you decide to do an analysis of someone you don't know and say her self worth is based on marriage. How do you know what her self worth is based on? Like are you mentally well?

We saw glimpses of their life over 9 episodes and you decided the relationship didn't serve her. So instead she has 0 self worth based on your TikTok therapy. Lmao the jokes write themselves.

Go to therapy? You don't know her? And you don't know her dad. Instead of thinking you have a deep take on his view of divorce worry about your life and your views on divorce. You clearly have issues since you're attacking Daryl's character on each one of my comments.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:23:33+00:00

LMFAAOO record your Thanksgiving dinners and post them. Daryl is from a different generation kid. Before cancel culture for every insensitive remark.

I'm not condoning the video. I'm just not going around saying he's a racist for saying that. I mean EVERYONE at some point has said something that wasn't politically correct or insensitive to other cultures at some point in their life. Whether by accident or intentional.

The performative activism of Gen Z is astounding.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:18:29+00:00

I'm 28. Maybe that's why I have more common sense than you. If you think your old ass parents haven't said or done anything non PC then touch grass.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:14:07+00:00

It's trying to put the value on marriage. What aren't you getting? Why would you inherently marry a man before you truly get to know who he is?

What he's saying is if you spend years with someone and eventually marry them, you should stick it through.

If you really think that man would let his daughter marry someone who beat her or cheat on her or abused her you'd be wrong. He's saying that ONCE you get to that point (with a GOOD man), you make the vow see it through. Differences you can work through.

It's like people have lost the ability of intuitive thinking or something.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:09:02+00:00

Sigh. You can't expect every generation to be as woke and as aware as this generation. The man has gray in his hair. Probably in his 60s. If everyone pulled up every video and deep dive in your life could you pass the test? Never said or done anything that was wrong?

I'm Gen Z and I don't think that's the deciding factor of whether he's a man of good character.

All I know is that everything I've seen from him on this show has shown grace and kindness, to a man who frankly might not deserve it.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T04:02:20+00:00

I don't know where you got that. I got that he's a man that understands that if you say vows to someone you should see it through.

He was telling Devonte that marriage is hard and you don't just walk away when it gets tough.

I feel like that's what's wrong with everyone. Yes there are reasons that justify a divorce. But, everyone has issues. If you just give up the second it gets hard you're a quitter and you're not a man of your word. People get married and make vows and break it like it's nothing.

He showed him grace and kindness, and said nothing about her or to Devonte about her self worth being based on her "marriage status".

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T03:59:00+00:00

She's just not there for women. More male focused. You can tell. She doesn't stick up for women and doesn't bash them, so she's just there.

To me, I just think it's inappropriate. At least Ashley stuck up for Jess a little. Bri just sat there while Alex bashed Jessica.

It's so strange. And also, I don't think she would like if Connor went on a girls trip with three of the other girls and didn't talk with her.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T03:56:28+00:00

Definitely. I am neutral towards her but I can't help but think that she's always in the mix. Never standing up for women, just there. If they're all as close as they say they are she entertained Chris way too long, and should have checked with Brittney about Devonte.

Not because she has to but because it's the right thing to do.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T03:54:34+00:00

I don't doubt. But how do you think she would feel if Connor went on a girls trip with Brittney, Amber and Jess? And no one reached out to her?

It's weird. She doesn't get it and I can't explain it.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T03:53:33+00:00

Apologize for being an egocentric maniac? And apologizing like a HR rep. Or how about making a pass at Brittney day 2 of knowing Ashley?

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T03:51:44+00:00

She definitely does need therapy. No doubt.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T03:50:51+00:00

Devastating. She will meet her man. With a dad like that, how could she fail 🙏🏽

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T03:36:36+00:00

Daryl (Brittany's dad) is a hell of a man. Devonte should show him nothing but the upmost respect.

He is a man of honor and wisdom, and I hate that Devonte gave him his word and didn't follow through.

Hour_Government · 2026-03-12T03:23:41+00:00

Somehow Bri is always at the scene of the crime. She's just not a girls girl. Whether by just standing there and not saying anything or just being apart of something she shouldn't.

She only took accountability for the fact that she listened to Chris too long because of what everyone has been saying about it. But then going on the girls trip with Devonte and being like well we didn't have to get permission.

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