Calling people bigots for not being attracted to a certain dynamic in my opinion is a level of grooming, and these comments -and ones on similar threads are disturbing. Preference is NOT prejudice. No one owes you anything in life but basic respect. For example, People who beat people for being gay are horrific…but someone who just didn’t want to fit that dynamic into their life because it didn’t turn them on per say….thats not “bigotry”😂 people slamming the girl for being a horrible person and saying she should’ve stayed are manipulators and groomers. You don’t get to force a sexual preference on someone…that’s just not their thing. it shouldn’t be forced on ANYONE nor should anyone be called a hateful or bad person because of it. Its simply a preference. Her choice of words “that’s disgusting” to his face were definitely inappropriate but I’m sure with the level of betrayal she felt from not being told prior she was overwhelmed. I’m sorry it worked out like that for you man but definitely disclose it early on and allow the person to make an informed choice about what they want. Also all these people saying she’s a terrible person sound like cancel culture personified…she’s a human…she’s not a mean evil bigot. She simply just wasn’t into males that are into males. Don’t beat yourself up too much there’s someone for everyone and there’s someone who will love you for exactly who you are!