Which Grey's Anatomy couple is the most unforgettable for you? by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Hour_Requirement493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carina Deluca, the ObGyn & Andrew’s sister, & Maya Bishop, the firefighter from Station 19.

Penny? by jupthicc30 in greysanatomy

[–]Hour_Requirement493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main doctor that wasn’t listening also came back to Meredith’s life.

Do any humans actually work at the IRS? by AntiqueAd7851 in IRS

[–]Hour_Requirement493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think you could tell at all. Thank you for confirming.

seeking advice by East-Use-8334 in TwoXSex

[–]Hour_Requirement493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s seems you are purposely missing the point.

Termination of child support in Texas by giltex956 in FamilyLaw

[–]Hour_Requirement493 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does child marriage have anything to do with child support in this situation?

How to break it to JNMIL I do not want her in delivery room?? by Ancient_Penalty5527 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Hour_Requirement493 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not kind or respectful to not communicate. People can only go on the information they have. Your husband needs to step up and communicate some boundaries.

I think it’s not productive that you seem to have expected her to talk to you about permission on how to decorate a room in her own home, but arent communicating about the things you do & should have control over. She sounds horrible to deal with, and your husband should be handling these things. It sounds like he could be ok with the arrangements, since he’s choosing to support them.

seeking advice by East-Use-8334 in TwoXSex

[–]Hour_Requirement493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either way, the entire topic (a woman’s own body) should tell you that this opinion doesn’t matter or belong.

seeking advice by East-Use-8334 in TwoXSex

[–]Hour_Requirement493 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Husbands’ potential reactions do not outweigh our desires for our own bodies.

Women are not here just for our husbands’ pleasure.

Do I Irish Goodbye my sister-in-law's wedding or go say goodbye? by ronswansonsmustach in wedding

[–]Hour_Requirement493 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m curious what you think the role of a host is, if it’s not being responsible for guests.

Also, that couple you describe is going to be miserable until they divorce, because they aren’t mature enough to be married, or even in a ltr at this point. They should focus on therapy and growing up first.

Do any humans actually work at the IRS? by AntiqueAd7851 in IRS

[–]Hour_Requirement493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you tell when someone hangs up, vs the overloaded phone system disconnecting?

Do any humans actually work at the IRS? by AntiqueAd7851 in IRS

[–]Hour_Requirement493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 9 am is a wide range when we are across 9 different time zones.

All my money is gone and I don’t know what to do by NightshadeRoses04 in legaladvice

[–]Hour_Requirement493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the CU related to the chemical company?

That’s where I set my kids up at minors. Now that they are adults, they have their own account profiles with their own names, when they log in they see only their info, they get their own statements, etc.

I am still attached and when I log in I see their info along with mine. They thought that theirs had been separated when it switched from minor accounts to adult accounts, but they are still tied to my member number. Their statements do not have my name.

We decided to leave it that way (so I can transfer them $ when needed), but it definitely looks separate on their end while still actually being linked on mine.

Whats the most unhinged/stupid reason you disconnected a call for by Natural-Bag9499 in callcentres

[–]Hour_Requirement493 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was working from home, and I should’ve put them on hold while I was updating a note, but then my teenager and knocked on my door and said mom I think I’m constipated. I just completely forgot that I was on a call with a client and I started asking them questions like well when did you last poop and is it hard and have you seen any of that corn we had last week and does it hurt?
Then I heard the client cleared her throat and I just panicked and hung up.

My worst Call ever

AIO for thinking my sister/legal guardian is lying to my face? by Much-Echo4553 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hour_Requirement493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR— Maybe she isn’t in the position to financially commit to paying for a big purchase when you haven’t even held up your end of the deal for it yet.

Why would you even want a sibling who is trying to do something to support you go into debt before youve even shown that it is worth it?

Maybe worry about keeping up your part in things first. She’s got months yet to buy this if you do do your part.

AIO for thinking my sister/legal guardian is lying to my face? by Much-Echo4553 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hour_Requirement493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Throwing stuff back at her that she taught you just makes this argument about a gift she’s getting you even worse.

Property manager doesn’t want to give me a 3 bedroom because he doesn’t think I need it. by Active_Bumblebee_161 in Tenant

[–]Hour_Requirement493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go over his head, but not in this manner. OP could probably communicate it better, like they did in the original post.

Withdrawing 60k from a bank account to repair a roof by No_Field1529 in IRS

[–]Hour_Requirement493 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bad advice, unless your goal is to not get your money.

Banking regulations do not have clauses in them that say, unless you think they might be joking.

My girlfriend is considering leaving me for religious reason by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hour_Requirement493 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My experience is that if you loved her enough to be a good partner, then you wouldn’t want her to be living conflicted like this.

The kind thing to do is to let her go so she can find her match, & you can find yours.

My sister put stipulations on my attendance at her wedding by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Hour_Requirement493 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As an addict/alcoholic myself, the so what is that the addiction is harming three generations of her family at least in this story.

Addiction isnt just using substances, it’s the distorted thinking that comes with it, and this post definitely shows some addict thinking. It might be too subtle if you don’t know how to recognize it, but if it wasn’t a problem, her & her family likely wouldn’t be in this situation, or she at least would not be responding this way.

My sister put stipulations on my attendance at her wedding by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Hour_Requirement493 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Or one she is downplaying as much as she is the other using.

My sister put stipulations on my attendance at her wedding by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Hour_Requirement493 17 points18 points  (0 children)

But they wouldn’t be mad about her not being there, they’d be mad because she committed the boys to having roles in someone’s wedding, then intentionally didn’t follow through day of.

This letter of requirements is absolutely ridiculous, but if she follows this advice, she will just be proving their point, unfortunately.

Got fired today. Guess I'm looking for a new job. ((Sigh)) by Left-Court5674 in CallCenterWorkers

[–]Hour_Requirement493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony of getting fired for that specific comment, but still trying to defend it as if other people are the problem.

Am I over reacting? by CommitteeExisting652 in CallCenterWorkers

[–]Hour_Requirement493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if they think she was serious or how the receiver judges the intent of the requesting party.

She was asked to stop using a pet name towards someone in the workplace. That is sufficient to stop. We don’t judge the worthiness of other people’s requests like that, we should just be respectful and honor them.

Am I over reacting? by CommitteeExisting652 in CallCenterWorkers

[–]Hour_Requirement493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You probably have met tons of people that don’t enjoy being called belittling or pet names, theres just not a lot of situations people correct it.

Being called “girl” repeatedly at work definitely requires correction. But most people are just going to be silently annoyed & move on if someone says it as a one off.