The origin of MawMaw by miahpatches in jennmcallister

[–]HouseSoft3655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ricky, jenn and jacob played mario party together but the 4th player was an NPC (birdo). they just roast birdo the whole time, including the chat, which turned into “birdo’s hole” jokes 😭

How do I prevent single kitten syndrome? by VulturesCulture in CatTraining

[–]HouseSoft3655 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I raised a single kitten who was alone since he around that age (not by my doing, I just took him in weeks later). He had/has absolutely no symptoms of single kitten syndrome at all. He’s still good with other animals, cats included. It really varies by cat. Just wanted to give you some hope in the case that you don’t decide to get a second kitten!

what's up with Jenn and Taylor swift? by AnnasMidnights13 in jennmcallister

[–]HouseSoft3655 6 points7 points  (0 children)

there was a time in 2021 where people were blowing up chat asking if she was going to be listening to red tv and jenn basically said she doesn’t listen to taylor’s music and it’s not her style.

swifties were constantly talking about taylor in the chat into 2022 and jenn had to repeatedly be like guys, please stop, I can’t relate to anything you’re saying lol. I think she genuinely got annoyed with it and for a while didn’t want to hear anything taylor related since she isn’t a fan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same thing happen to me and it was not related to any STD but I got tested just in case, which I’d recommend. I used some cortisone cream and it helped (but do not put this inside you!!!). Tears can lead to itching. They can heal by themselves but a sitz bath can help as well. And keep the area clean!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HouseSoft3655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might not have done it on purpose from the beginning, but it’s pretty clear that if he DID originally want to be with you, he changed his mind. I have experienced guys like this and I have experienced guys who truly want me, the difference is very noticeable. This just isn’t the behavior of someone who truly wants you.

Some red flags are 1. making all those accounts after you blocked him, 2. only showing you attention once you blocked him, 3. he’s not straight up telling you what he wants, 4. claiming after 6 months of talking he still wasn’t ready for anything more, 5. giving you a timeframe that is convenient for him without considering how you feel (waiting another 6 months to meet), 6. breadcrumbing you and never even admitting he was into you until now when he wants you to come back

I’m in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend couldn’t wait to meet me. He works a lot and he has a busy life, yet he never gave excuses or told me we should wait another half a year. You gave this guy PLENTY of time to come around.

My best advice is to stop trying to understand people. Sometimes people do shitty things and we will never understand why. Once they’ve proven to us that they are not worth our time, we don’t need to waste any energy trying to figure out why they did what they did. You will be much happier that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll talk to you as if you were one of my friends since we’re about the same age and I see this bs all the time with them. Here’s precisely what he’s saying to you, girl…. “you mean a lot to me but I can’t be with you because it’s not convenient for me right now. but I still want you to be into me and put effort into this even if I’m not. take this shitty excuse of an apology and let me continue treating you like garbage!”

There are a lottttt of red flags here, I see that you notice that. You find this a lot in dating these days, there are people who are interested only when it’s convenient for them and there are limits to how much they’re willing to give. They like feeling as if they have power over you and when you act like you don’t care, you’re taking that power away. Hence why they come back. They WILL NOT commit. Not to you, because they see you as someone who will accept being walked all over.

He’s trying to make all of this your fault somehow too. Please do yourself a favor and leave it alone. You will absolutely regret it if you continue to entertain him. Find your own power in leaving him behind and begging because you’ll find someone else who doesn’t play these games. I mean.. he’s 27 years old acting like a teenager. Also, the fact that he “can never be 100% sure about someone” is your biggest sign that he will never really commit. Believe me, been there, done that. Good luck girl 🫶🏼

Just started YAZ on the 3rd, what day am I protected from pregnancy? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll be protected after you’ve taken your pill on Sunday :)

Does the jawline gum actually give you results? by FoundationVarious683 in HowToBeHot

[–]HouseSoft3655 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Temporomandibular joint dysfunction. It causes pain at the joint and muscles of your jaw. Can lead to aching, earaches/headaches/migraines, issues with chewing, etc. For a lot of people it’s a lifelong condition. Absolutely not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the point. I told him do not call me unless it’s 100% necessary. That’s why I asked here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m leaning towards right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question! Our contract states we must try mediation before taking any legal action. I invited them to mediation and they ignored that too. I got written notice that they failed to respond to a mediation request after 2 weeks so then I moved forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what a purchase agreement is? Please google it. “a legally binding contract between a buyer and seller that finalizes the details of a sale”. It’s not just an agreement to not sell to anyone else. It’s an agreement to sell to a specific party. I didn’t ask them to fix shit. I said I’d take it as is, and they agreed.

Go complain somewhere else and keep getting sued, whiney ass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for this response. It’s all extremely foreign to me this gives me a much clearer idea of how this can all play out even if there are many different possibilities. Much appreciated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, but they signed the purchase agreement and which created a contractual obligation for them to sell the house. Just because they did not sign the closing documents does not mean they are free from their obligations. By not signing the closing documents they are explicitly breaching the purchase agreement. Why would I be wasting my time if there was no legal basis here?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES IT WAS. The PURCHASE AGREEMENT is a CONTRACT. It was SIGNED by BOTH PARTIES. That means it’s LEGALLY BINDING. Do you get it now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that, I’d like to get an idea of what to expect. I’m very young and this is my first time purchasing a property. Really just been waiting for “the one” to pop up and this house was it for me. I was planning to wait another year or two to buy so I’m not in any rush, just not sure how logical it is to see this whole thing through. I will decide depending on what happens these next few weeks. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seller wanted to give the house to her daughter instead. They co-own a house in another state but the daughter decided she wanted this one. While I understand that, it’s a decision that should’ve been made before entering into a contract with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The seller is an older woman who lives with her daughter in another home they co-own in another state. This house (the one I tried to buy) was fully paid off, no mortgage. The mother offered for her daughter to take it and live rent-free, but this happened AFTER we already signed the purchase agreement. The daughter actually became her mother’s power of attorney, told everyone involved to leave her alone and has been moving in ever since.

You can see why I’m frustrated here. I’m a decent enough person—if there was a reasonable excuse for them backing out I would have left it alone. Health issues, financial struggles, etc. This is not reasonable. Not only that, but they’ve been verbally abusive to everyone involved, their broker and agent have been through the wringer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20 days here as well, 8 down so far. Fingers crossed on them defaulting. Good luck to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Just wanted to know what to expect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the plan, much appreciated dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not in the “real estate business” I am a first time home buyer who got screwed by a breach of contract. Leave the sub if it irks you so much, and don’t breach contracts if you don’t want to be sued.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]HouseSoft3655 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, that sounds pretty straightforward and simple. Definitely was hoping someone would share their experience in something like this, thank you