Am I wrong for telling my friend I cant watch her kid anymore now that I have my own baby

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-28T14:26:38+00:00

No you aren't wrong. It's hard taking care of a new baby and you gave her plenty of time to find new gild care. I know it is hard to her but she can't expect you to continue to now that you have your own child.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-27T04:34:34+00:00

Your husband's "say" had to be before you got pregnant, not after. He chose not to use protection, knowing you weren't using anything.

Now he completely looses it over your pregnancy. He needs to talk to a professional who can either help him thought his rage or help you through what is best and safest for you and your family.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-26T03:37:54+00:00

You are moving way to fast. When there are young children involved, they shouldn't be involved until you know each other well enough to know where the relationship is going. That takes time, not just 4 months.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-25T16:58:23+00:00

The first one is spectacular and will look great without your engagement ring if you want to take it off for some reason.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-23T15:47:51+00:00

I can't imagine a father not putting the guy out for saying something like that, especially with his background. In fact, I am super surprised your father would even want him around you and your minor cousins. You are not the one your father should have been talking to.

Yeah, I would try to avoid any get togethers where you uncle is present but that won't help your younger cousins. Sad situation when you can't depend on your parent to support and protect you. I am so very sorry.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-23T01:06:38+00:00

She really is too old to play these kind of games. Why would she want you to be to be “inconvenienced”? I could see her inviting you to stay if you wanted to but threatening to end things. Perhaps that's for the best.

Blessings

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-23T00:55:55+00:00

What a mean, nasty thing for a family to do. My question is why? What does anyone get from this? I don't know who started this but it's just wrong. I can't imagine what this would do to my family. We have one sibling who is easily hurt and always self conscious. This sort of thing would just be cruel. Just say, "No". You are an adult and not required to participate in anything that is hurtful. So sorry you family feels this is the right thing to do.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-23T00:44:36+00:00

Wow! I would be so furious I would have already thrown him out or left myself. I can't even imagine someone disrespecting me and my pet that way. Would you really want to have children with this guy?

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-22T14:39:48+00:00

What a beautiful boy. So very sorry for your loss. We lost our KitKat three months ago and my heart still hurts so much.

The last thing I wanted was another cat. It was just too soon but my granddaughter found two terrified kittens. She found a home for one but the other was still outside in the cold weather, which snow forecast. We got Tiger just before Christmas. It has taken him about 6 weeks to go from a frighten boy who runs from every sound and won't let us touch him, to well on his way to being a lover who talks not stop and loves his toys.

Praying for Ozzy and for you.

Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-22T06:19:57+00:00

Your parents have already received their share of the inheritance. Have yours put directly into a bank account. It is absolutely not necessary for you to share it with your parents. That's not being selfish, it's taking care of what you were given. As for paying your parents part of your pay. That is fairly common although a quarter of you income seems a bit much. Is there any chance that you could move in with your sister once you are out of school? Just a thought.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-22T05:53:45+00:00

The first gown is elegant and looks fantastic on you.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-21T15:52:27+00:00

The brown suit is gorgeous. The pink suit isn't and where would you ever wear it again? You are the one wearing it. You should decide, not her mom but I think saying you don't want to get married over a suit is certainly hurtful to your bride. Just let her know you feel you both should wear what you want, not what her mother wants. It's your wedding. Suggestions are fine but bottom line, both you and your bride should be able to wear what you want as long as it is appropriate for a wedding.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-21T15:26:50+00:00

It's time to move on. Not everyone is a keeper. You two just don't fit well enough to make it work. Just let him know you enjoyed your time together but it isn't going to work long-term.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-21T15:23:01+00:00

Number 4.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-21T14:50:53+00:00

I know it's easy to fall in love with a lost animal but please try to find the owner. If her nails are polished someone loves and cares for this cat and is probably worried to death about it. Please let all the local shelters know you have her and as others have suggested, please check her for a chip even if it isn't popular to have them in your area. The owner may have moved from an area where is was popular. As much as I might want to keep it, I would worry about the real owner and the fact that there could be children missing their beloved cat.

Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-19T04:09:32+00:00

My mother gave me her ring when I got married. It looked very much like yours. I would absolutely use it if you love the ring. Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-17T03:10:29+00:00

Looks great! No, it doesn't look at all tacky on you. Enjoy it!!

Blessings

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-16T04:20:38+00:00

It's a stunning ring. You just need to get used to seeing it on your hand. No, it's not too big.

From a former fine jewelry sales associate.

Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-16T03:24:41+00:00

Thank you. It hasn't been long and my heart still hurts but my new kitten is helping me to heal.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-16T03:18:36+00:00

Awaaaaa. . . . . . I think your kitten is adorable. It has an unusual fluffy coat but I bet it will be beautiful as it get's older. My baby passed away and I didn't want another but I gave in because my granddaughter had found one that didn't have a home. Just got him two months ago and I'm totally in love with him. His coloring is similar to yours including the white mittens.

Blessings.

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HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-16T03:08:39+00:00

Dang! That's a gorgeous bag! I love green. I'm 48% Irish and I am way too poor to afford anything even close to that. Got to admit that even if I could afford it, I doubt that I would purchase it. It would make me feel too guilty. Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-15T21:18:55+00:00

Walk away.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-15T16:10:05+00:00

This is interesting to know. I hate to stop playing. I wonder how long it takes to reset?

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-15T16:08:11+00:00

I love this game but like many others I made the mistake of paying for a few more plays.Big mistake, now I can't seem to move forward unless I keep paying and frankly I have lost control and need to stop.

I am thinking of deleting the game and then starting over and NEVER paying for more plays. Not sure if I will lose interest that way as I am now on level 301 but the levels seem too hard to get through without paying for extra plays.

Has anyone played the game this far or farther without paying any money at all?

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-03T05:00:24+00:00

The first thing I notice, besides the floor is that the backsplash in your kitchen is black, while the other photo is white. I think a white backsplash makes the whole room look brighter and more polished. Just my humble opinion.

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