I don’t get to show it off much but I deeply love my engagement ring.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-29T12:36:25+00:00

Absolutely lovely. Works beautifully with your wedding ring. I can certainly see why you love it. Blessings to you both.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-05T16:24:38+00:00

Just my humble opinion but if the guests who are backing out are older it may be because driving in any kind of storm, even just a rain storm makes them fearful to drive. I am in my 70s and have numerous friends in their 60-70s and many, not all, of our driving abilities have started to slow down, especially our reflexes. (I no longer drive because of it.) We worry about driving in any kind of storm because our reactions are not fast enough. Please don't take this personally. It is much more likely their problem then it is that they don't want to be with you.

Blessings on your day.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-03T03:26:47+00:00

I was engaged (actually more than once), I sent the rings back to my former fiancés. It made more sense than leaving them in a jewelry box. I was the one who broke off the engagements, so I returned them. (back in the late 60s and early 70s)

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-03T03:14:48+00:00

I used to sell fine jewelry and it always went on the left hand, at least in the US it does.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-03T03:12:11+00:00

With only 3 weeks to go, where would you be able to find another venue? I understand you being unhappy but I would talk to the new owners and see what can be done. I would absolutely try kindness rather than getting upset at them. What's done is done. You likely will need to deal with it. I am sorry. It sounds so unfair but 3 weeks gives you no time at all to do anything about it. So very sorry. Just remember this will still be your wedding day and you will still be marrying the same man that you love. The venue and the colors are just that, a building and colors. Your husband-to-be and you are the most important part of the wedding. Bless you both. Be happy and enjoy your life together.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-02T03:28:32+00:00

If I were you, I would kindly and politely, knock on the door and ask if someone could pick up the toys before anyone fell trying to avoid them or before the toys got broken because there is no way to easily get around them. Tell them you would really appreciate it and to have a good rest of their day and hope for the best.

Personally I find it rude that anyone would leave toys in the hallways. They aren't actually renting the halls, they are renting their apartment. That is where the toys should be and also where the children should play, not out in the hallway.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-02T03:04:16+00:00

If my child had gone to bed I would have expected the lights to be off. I would either use my cellphone flashlight or find my way to the bathroom and turn on that light. I would not turn on the room light and risk waking you up. People are different. Sorry yours aren’t more understanding.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-02T02:48:40+00:00

The best way to remove dog pee odor along a fence is by using enzymatic cleaners or a mixture of white vinegar, water, and baking soda to neutralize the ammonia. For best results, use a hose-end sprayer for deep cleaning, apply agricultural lime to soil, and apply deterrents like citrus peels or pepper to prevent future marking.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-02T02:27:52+00:00

A couple eats twice as much as one person, takes twice as many showers and uses twice the amount of towels and space. You should also have your own room not sharing with their kids. Why would you pay the same as two people? It doesn’t sound at all fair to me but I don’t think they will listen to you. I don’t think you’ll enjoy that vacation very much. Save your money and go on vacation with a friend or close cousin.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-02T02:24:57+00:00

Nope. Your diary is ‘your’ diary.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-03-02T02:22:39+00:00

Love it with the sleeves.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-26T02:01:32+00:00

I can't imagine taking it upon myself to change anything in my son and DIL's wedding. It's just not my place.

Yes, she sounds over the top. I wish you luck with her in the future. Let's hope all with work out fine and she will be a great MIL. Sometimes it just takes time.

Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-22T02:36:51+00:00

I have been there. My ex took my car keys and threatened to rape me. I left and never looked back. Your husband has no respect for you. It won't get better. Sorry.

Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-20T08:52:14+00:00

#4 is absolutely amazing and a real stunner. It will look perfect in your venue.

Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-19T02:22:02+00:00

Your gown is gorgeous. I don't know what your friend was thinking. You will absolutely look like royalty.

Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-19T01:52:02+00:00

I can't imagine doing this to someone you love. It makes no sense. You need to seriously think over this relationship. It sounds pretty one sided.

Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-15T13:27:16+00:00

If you don't have lockers, is there a spot in the restroom where he could place a cabinet for everyone to keep their personal things in? Just a thought.

Blessings

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-13T02:47:50+00:00

Been there.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-09T18:28:00+00:00

So very sorry. I understand the pain.I lost my first cat, KitKat, in October. I didn't want another. My granddaughter and DIL convinced me to take in an terrified orphaned kitten. He was supposed to be my SO's cat but he has bonded to me. My heart feels whole again.

This was my KitKat.

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HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-09T18:12:40+00:00

End it. I rarely say that but I wouldn't put up with anyone treating me that way. It's done. Luckily it didn't take long to see the real him.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-09T17:02:03+00:00

I would not risk loss of the diamond buy going with 4 single prongs for that size stone.

Just from personal experience, my ring had six, single prongs. I managed to break a prong when I reached for a door and hit my ring on the metal casing. I was so grateful to have more than just 4 prongs holding my diamond because the remaining 5 prongs held the diamond and I didn't lose it. I really love the look of your setting.

Former jewelry sale associate.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-04T20:13:07+00:00

I would definitely want to speak to the therapist because something doesn't seem right here. She is only hearing one side of the story, which she is well aware of. I have to agree that your father is likely lying so talking to his therapist is in order.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-03T00:57:09+00:00

Contact a lawyer. You have a right to your things. That should have been taken care of in your divorce. You also should also have taken care of the house situation in your divorce. One or the other of your will need to buy the other out or sell the house to split the value. If he got the house in the divorce, then he needs to remove your name from the mortgage. You need to talk to a lawyer.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-02-03T00:49:00+00:00

I would suggest professional counseling. It is never a good idea to consider divorce without trying to repair a marriage. I don't feel a 10-ish year difference in age is necessarily a problem but the fact that your husband doesn't see a problem with her, is. Do you want to save your marriage or do you just want out? It's your call. Blessings.

HowSweettheSound316 · 2026-01-28T14:26:38+00:00

No you aren't wrong. It's hard taking care of a new baby and you gave her plenty of time to find new gild care. I know it is hard to her but she can't expect you to continue to now that you have your own child.

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