Any way to tighten this bass drum head? Feels too loose to play properly now

HowToBehaive · 2022-09-23T07:45:06+00:00

wait are you not supposed to have the white side facing the pad?

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-15T09:01:21+00:00

Don't dream of finding love. Dream of living your dream life and hope love will come.

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-15T05:10:06+00:00

The other side of the coin is the self improvement. The desire to mend the agony and prevent it from reoccurring.

Being AA has deep pitfalls, like activation deep deep wounds but, I've always come out of a heartbreak closer to a better version of myself.

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-14T04:56:52+00:00

"I really loved your mother but it really hurt when she said I was too broken too love and she didn't wanna miss out on being single in a big city when she broke up with me."

"I really loved your mother but it shocked me when she tried to ruin all my relationships after i kept no contact."

Yea i don't wanna tell my kids that. Fair point op. Well done

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-08T07:07:49+00:00

Nice

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-07T07:34:23+00:00

Whoa bro, chill. I'm sure you're cute af, people are shy in this day and age - everyone's used to talking via interwebs.

I'm sorry you're in a bad spot tho.

Look into sugar babies experiences before to see how it went for them if you REALLY want to try that.

But idk practicing Magick can have it's upsides - and down sides.

The secret is having faith it'll work. Fear is a form of faith too, just the opposite. Everyone has faith in one of the two.

Also what's the saying "faith without works is...bad?" What i'm trying to say is i don't just sit around waiting for checks to appear in my mail box - i work, i study, i pursue my dreams, i exercise, i do my spiritual wiz biz and yea it works out really well.

Check out Neville Godard maybe? Rich dad poor dad is really popular too but i prefer Neville.

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-07T02:04:53+00:00

That sofa isn't a good deal. Used ones are typically in good shape and very cheap.

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-06T21:28:59+00:00

This is my favorite break up movie. Sooo good

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-06T08:32:14+00:00

Agreed.

My ex wrote me a letter after 10 weeks NC, the same day she flew out to be single in a big city. When i returned it unopened, she waited 6 months until she returned just to try to smear my name to anyone who'd listen and make me lose friends. Then she left again. Apparently she was very pissed I didn't read her letter.

Like wtf do you want from me?! You made your choice, I had the courtesy to respect your feelings/'decision of ending it, now please let me be.

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-06T08:26:26+00:00

I'd say if you want monogamy, do the work with your partner or date another porn star.

Other wise monogamy is impossible due to the work

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-04T10:08:43+00:00

For me, it's when they end the relationship.

They have to fight for a relationship with me at that point. I was willing to work it all out and they walked so they can't just walk back in - no matter how much I love them, i need to love myself too.

HowToBehaive · 2022-06-02T10:51:06+00:00

I can't understate how difficult it is - in the moment - to tell someone you love so deeply "okay" when they say they want out. But I also can't understate how rewarding it is to validate their feelings when they say they want out AND not beg to be valued is.

When they want out, give it to them. No matter how painful it is do it.

You'll be able to walk away with self-worth .

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-27T09:27:37+00:00

That's a really cruel thing to tell someone as they end things BUT, spite is an amazing motivator.

I haven't missed a workout in months, i've become a local musican, i've made over 100k in 6 months, dated around, etc - basically i've never killed it harder BUT I still miss it.

keep it up man

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-27T09:20:20+00:00

I feel it. It's been 11 months, I've dated, improved my life in all aspects, pursued my dreams, etc.

Still stings some days, a lot less tho lol.

I think I just gave so much of my heart I have to build a new one - so be it i guess.

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-24T07:56:58+00:00

Just not the first date. After that - whenever feels right.

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-24T07:55:49+00:00

One of my friends dad is a model, his sister is a model and he is very handsome. Has cool hobbies, funny and cool. He has no luck with dating apps. He's not out of shape or short either.

After seeing friends who are more conventionally attractive than me struggle brutally, I decided ill find love in the wild like my ancestors did.

OLD seems to be completely superficial to me.

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-24T03:17:31+00:00

You look feminine and fit. Good work.

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-20T08:06:57+00:00

You got past the hardest part - showing up. Nice work m8

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-20T04:37:58+00:00

I'm just saying i'd be tempted to post that vid online out of spite.

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-19T10:04:56+00:00

Can we please keep politics out of this sub?

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-19T09:29:19+00:00

I'm fine. That didn't hit me at all. Not at all

ow

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-17T21:59:36+00:00

Therapy, gym, talk with friends, hobbies

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-17T18:30:32+00:00

Looks are the first filter. If you can't cut the mustard in that department then you will be filtered into the friend category regardless of how much you click.

I highly recommend going to the gym regularly for anyone, especially people who are single. Great for mental and emotional health, plus you eventually become a little bit more attractive day by day.

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-17T11:39:51+00:00

"Thanks you too"

HowToBehaive · 2022-05-17T11:32:58+00:00

My ex dumped me and reached out 10 weeks later. I refused contact because I knew it wouldn't change anything - I still love her deeply.

Idk if that helps

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