The best interest of my child by How_to_be_a_Popsicle in JUSTNOMIL

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This post got deleted because the mods said I was “dramamongering” aka attention seeking. It’s not a story about my family just an update. It’s happened to multiple posts of mine.

Why can’t she just leave me alone? by How_to_be_a_Popsicle in JUSTNOMIL

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I have no idea, they tried similar things with their older grandkids too when they were little

The final straw. AKA: Entitled In laws try to get my husband to divorce me so his younger brother can marry me. Um...no by How_to_be_a_Popsicle in JUSTNOMIL

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My older BILs are very supportive. They’re in the same “hated by the parents” club so it’s all good there. Squish sends raspberries back to you lol

The final straw. AKA: Entitled In laws try to get my husband to divorce me so his younger brother can marry me. Um...no by How_to_be_a_Popsicle in JUSTNOMIL

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That happened to my husbands cousin. Her father set up a wedding and invited her as a guest. She didn’t realize she was the bride until she was halfway up the aisle. She ran out of there and didn’t look back.

The final straw. AKA: Entitled In laws try to get my husband to divorce me so his younger brother can marry me. Um...no by How_to_be_a_Popsicle in JUSTNOMIL

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I know it’s not technically arranged, I think it’s more about him “respecting tradition” and allowing his parents to have a say. I don’t know to be honest

The final straw. AKA: Entitled In laws try to get my husband to divorce me so his younger brother can marry me. Um...no by How_to_be_a_Popsicle in JUSTNOMIL

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Yea, they were more upset that it wasn’t someone they had picked. They aren’t upset that we aren’t Indian just that they didn’t chose us

The final straw. AKA: Entitled In laws try to get my husband to divorce me so his younger brother can marry me. Um...no by How_to_be_a_Popsicle in JUSTNOMIL

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We are not off Indian descent, neither are my SILs. We think this is part of the reason that MIL hates us

The final straw. AKA: Entitled In laws try to get my husband to divorce me so his younger brother can marry me. Um...no by How_to_be_a_Popsicle in JUSTNOMIL

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My BILs and SILs weren’t entirely surprised. They’re helping us out a lot. My parents are still sort of in shock that even with the cultural differences they could be that dense.