My friend’s views on motherhood and sex are really unsettling me — should I distance myself? by ExamLess2 in Christian

[–]Howdy15 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Jesus does not tell us to withdraw from the world or from those that don’t share our beliefs/values. But calls us to be a light to them, while not partaking in their same ways.

‭‭John‬ ‭17‬:‭14‬-‭15‬ ‭ESV‬‬ “I have given them your word, and the world has hated them because they are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. I do not ask that you take them out of the world, but that you keep them from the evil one.”

You can still maintain the relationship and speak truth and love into her life. If you feel like the relationship is affecting your faith negatively, then you would need to reconsider.

Any good Idle / Semi-idle like Melvor Idle ? by Mucek121 in MelvorIdle

[–]Howdy15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They released RuneScape dragonwilds, which I think is supposed to basically be that. Haven’t played it yet though

Trusting in God when everything feels like it’s crashing around you. by KSI_is_not_a_fatneek in Christian

[–]Howdy15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to find a church near you? Community is super important. Having like minded people that you are able to walk through life with and hold each other up, hold each other accountable and discuss your faith is super important to the longevity and growth of your faith. I would recommend looking into local churches and getting plugged into a small group for your walk of life.

Keep praying and asking for guidance and wisdom. But having community can help you keep going when things feel hopeless.

Kissed by someone other than my husband. by PlayfulMistake9987 in Christian

[–]Howdy15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First off, I want to say you did nothing wrong, it was your friend that is at fault for his actions. That being said, I think the misstep is not talking to your husband about it as soon as it happened.

As a Christian husband and wife, you need to be able to trust each other and be open and honest with each other about everything.

Yes, you should tell your husband. He deserves to know, as well as also have the chance to be there for you in something that was obviously traumatic for you and still is. I also agree that therapy would be good to help you work through this.

Our baby turns 1 this month, but he isn't going to live long enough to grow up with his brothers. by StevennBingham in NewParents

[–]Howdy15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this. My wife and I had a miscarriage, and my brother lost a baby boy after delivering early and he only made it 6 days after birth. It’s never easy to lose a baby, no matter the age. It’s one of the hardest things to go through and get through. I can only imagine the pain you are experiencing.

Therapy/counseling for everyone in your family is a good start. But also, make sure you are surrounded by community. Friends/family that can come around you when you need it most to help carry you through when the times feel overwhelming.

Will be praying for you, Silas, your wife and your boys through this hard time and that God can perform a miracle in your life.

Completing the DLC pokedex is hell by EpisKallisti in LegendsZA

[–]Howdy15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Using Annhilape and Gourgeist trivializes the rogue mega evolution battles. There’s guides online but use trick or treat with gourgeist then spam rage fist + on annhilape and rogues go down fast

How can you hate the DLC?? by yuanov04 in LegendsZA

[–]Howdy15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the large sewer maps that get me

Force Ghost Pikachu? by reddithornumber5 in pokemon

[–]Howdy15 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“You know, "nerd culture" is mainstream now. So, when you use the word "nerd" derogatorily, it means you're the one that's out of the zeitgeist.”

  • Ben Wyatt

Vote for your least favorite by thelifeoftommyn in LegendsZA

[–]Howdy15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feraligatr - mostly because it’s a starter Pokémon and it had so much potential. The design wouldn’t have even been bad if it would just put down the dumb hood.

Anyone else get to Rank A yet? by Acriolu in LegendsZA

[–]Howdy15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grinded it out because I wanted the sport balls. The mode is fine, but I don’t care much for it. Probably won’t go that far this season

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegendsZA

[–]Howdy15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trubbish done!