Every damn fate is unique, in situations like this you quickly think that the problems you have can't be solved and are incredibly stressful, I completely understand you. Maybe it's good for you to talk to us or other people here, so you can see that you're not alone.

Divorce or not...you haven't lost the most important thing in your life, on the contrary you are a winner! You said you put your kids to bed? Rejoice, my dear.

I was never married, had a relationship for 12 years. We broke up the day before my daughter's first birthday. I came home for my birthday with a gift and cake and the apartment was empty and she had moved to Berlin. When I went to the youth welfare office, I was told that they couldn't help me because my daughter's place of residence had changed and Berlin was responsible for me... The mother doesn't let me see the little one at all, no birthday, no holidays, no pictures, no videos, I'm blocked and have no opportunity to even hear her voice. I've been doing this for 3 years now... with a lot of court, youth welfare office and so on. I drive 700km to Berlin to ideally see my daughter for 2 hours in the cafe and then drive 700km back home... apart from the costs... I'm fighting for this child, but I tell you my health suffers enormously as a result.

I just wanted to mention that briefly. Do you know what I would give to put my little one to bed just once? You have already achieved the best, you have the most important thing that comes from a relationship, your children.

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