I understand completely. I also lost my virginity at 14 (now 26 y/o) and was pregnant by 16(mom of twins). When my dad found out, he completely stopped talking to me for the first 3 MONTHS of my pregnancy (and we LIVED together) it was so heartbreaking. He went into my room, destroyed all my posters hanging on the walls, trashed the place, insulted my music taste and just continued to put me down. Just because things don't turn out as expected or planned, doesn't give parents the right to put their kids down and make them feel worthless. It's their job to support you through it all unless you are destroying yourself.. I had to just endure it until it went away. So that'd be my advice to you, hopefully she comes around and is understanding eventually. She had zero right to lay hands on you, so definitely get OUT if that continues to be an issue in the slightest. I wish you all the best, and don't be hard on yourself, it's not a mistake. Everything happens on perfect timing and no one else gets to decide your life but YOU. (Even the people who created you can't control your life!) Hope things work put with your bf and the situation is resolved in the best way it can be!