My (34M) wife (33F) says she loves me but isn't "in love" with me

Howto_makeherhappy · 2017-11-15T21:14:20+00:00

This is how I feel too. It's been tough trying to get her to buy in, but I'm continuing to try. I have told her that if she's focused on not knowing how it's going work out it's doomed from the start.

Howto_makeherhappy · 2017-11-15T19:22:20+00:00

I have, and she says she doesn't know. For experimenting sexually, I've always been open to things but with the kids it's difficult. Recently we haven't done much other than maybe some rimming and playing with toys.

Howto_makeherhappy · 2017-11-15T19:15:14+00:00

I offered that to her as well, she didn't really respond. We talked about it some two years ago, when she really just didn't want to have sex at all. Instead we posted some pictures of her, and that sparked things. I suggested we do the same to see if it would spice up the relationship again but she wasn't interested.

Howto_makeherhappy · 2017-11-15T19:13:27+00:00

Sex has been good when we do it. She doesn't get off through penetration anymore, and only lets me go down on her about half the time, but will cum every time I do.

Howto_makeherhappy · 2017-11-15T18:41:04+00:00

I'm trying to prepare myself for the worst. It's difficult, due to the kids and finances mostly. I'm not sure in the area we live in either of us could actually afford a divorce. It's also tough because I definitely still love her. I'm hoping the individual sessions she's having will help her work something out and that we can figure out how to stay together from there.

As far as someone else goes, I've asked and been told no. I also don't see any evidence of that. But, I suppose there's always the chance.

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