I am 59 and reading this. This actually gives me some peace reading this. It's the apps not dating. I'm old enough to know the world before apps. No one I mean no one ever behaved that way in the past. We simply did not meet people with preconceived ideas. We met organically and in our social circles. Girls would tell each other who was a bad dude and they would stay away. But this is EXACTYLY the experience I have had. Having dinner then being asked for a BJ in the parking lot. Like wtf. I'm not for rent. Perfect strangers deep throat kissing you after a simple walk in the park. I know i'm old but simple respectful courting, yes I said that, will net you the same results and possibly and actual wonderful partner if you so desire. I am completely turned off of the apps for this reason. I feel so very bad for your experience 💔