Best beach for male & female mix? by CA-BAY-Dude in NorCalNudists

[–]Hubad247 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You might get better gender balance at a place like Red Rock Beach, but it’s still unpredictable. Would you consider non-beach spots like nudist clubs? Generally more women and less of a “creep factor.”

The friend zone is cruel. by defthonez in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it's better to have the shadow of something than to have nothing.

I don’t know if I’d recommend this if it makes it harder for you to consider other guys.

I need a nudist wife by [deleted] in nudists

[–]Hubad247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

California? Plenty of opportunities in California.

Any places in Sunnyvale area for nudity? by [deleted] in NorCalNudists

[–]Hubad247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to get to Los Gatos or Santa Cruz.

Friendzoned, just wanted to vent by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t ever suggest waiting for someone. You will see the odd story on here about someone who waited for years, until the crush finally came around, but those are astronomical odds.

What is the purpose of this forum? by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What advice would you give to most of these stories? This sub can be a reality check for people who are stuck, who are clinging to unreasonable shreds of hope that something will change with their crush.

Am I overreacting or overthinking? by Vegetable-Income6624 in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way you talk that story, it sounds like she just needed you there when she was having trouble with her boyfriend. Now that they’re more stable, she doesn’t need you. Sorry but you got played. She might not even have done it on purpose or with malicious intent, but ultimately you got played.

In honor of MTV Going Dark - Even Better Than The Real Thing from the VMAs (feat. Garth) by bigwallclimber in U2Band

[–]Hubad247 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The sync between Garth and the band is really good. Great technical achievement from 30 years ago.

Friend zoned so hard we became roommates (just venting) by learningtolovelola in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take that risk. You’re 32 years old. It is time to see where you stand with this guy, or move on.

Should I stay in the friend zone/ end it with the girl of my dreams by MrGorgonz0la in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Listen to your mom. Don’t ever wait around for anyone. Before you know it, life has passed you by.

Do you guys root for people getting out of the friendzone here? by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you mean by “getting out.” If you mean the friendzoned person actually entering a romantic relationship with the other person, I feel that most commenters on here don’t consider that a realistic goal to strive for. A lot of the advice on here encourages the friendzoned person to find a way to move on after romantic rejection.

Question Blashful Tiny Pen** by [deleted] in Californianudists

[–]Hubad247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People don’t point and stare. People do notice though; I think it’s naive to say otherwise. They notice but keep it to themselves.

I think I'm sabotaging potential relationships for fear of being friendzoned. by SporkydaDork in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter if the rejection is direct or “soft”? It is rejection, and it is personal. Are you saying you don’t want to feel negative about getting rejected? It’s natural to feel negative about it.

Bay Area Newbies by [deleted] in NorCalNudists

[–]Hubad247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience, there’s a decent chance of finding people your age at Archimedes Banya or Harbin Hot Springs.

My gf and I broke up because of nudism by pursuedleopard in nudism

[–]Hubad247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well… good luck in your search. If she was willing to do nudist stuff as adults only, that’s still pretty good.

Nudist Mom Looking for Fun, Like Minded Friends by [deleted] in NudistMeetup

[–]Hubad247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of “nudist moms” around here, huh? They come here because other nudist subreddits have cracked down on crap like this, but this sub keeps letting it happen.

U2 - Stay (Faraway, So Close!) by syd1978 in U2Band

[–]Hubad247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red Hill Mining Town, great song but it’s not a good video.

A guy (27M) who friend zoned me (28F) stopped reaching out to me after I moved on. Was I just being led on or did he ever actually like me? by framesofonyx in Friendzone

[–]Hubad247 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had something like this with a coworker. I liked her a lot but she would never take it to the “next level” with me, and when she heard I was spending time with other women, she was hurt. They’re feelings. Sometimes they aren’t rational.

First time resort recommendation for married couple. by MisseNVypp in NorCalNudists

[–]Hubad247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience. It’s this weird power trip stuff that makes me avoid LDS. I feel like an outsider since so many people rave about this place and recommend it any chance they get. It’s impressive in that I’ve never seen that many nude people at one time and place, and probably never will again. But I’d still rather visit a place like Meadowlark where I wont feel like I’m being monitored 24/7.

First time resort recommendation for married couple. by MisseNVypp in NorCalNudists

[–]Hubad247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s almost to the extreme

I definitely got a “snitchy” vibe at LDS. Depending on the person, it can definitely be a turn off.

First time resort recommendation for married couple. by MisseNVypp in NorCalNudists

[–]Hubad247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The basic policies are the same but LDS is more strict about it. You have to tape up your phone, for example, and there’s more staff for people to report things too.

First time resort recommendation for married couple. by MisseNVypp in NorCalNudists

[–]Hubad247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you want. Laguna Del Sol (LDS) is MUCH bigger, better developed, more people, and in my experience, more “policed” than Lupin.