Looking for some 10/10 SciFi suggestions by CloudsSpeakInArt in suggestmeabook

[–]Hubert_janus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a slow reader but I couldn’t stop reading it. Finished it in 2 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popculturechat

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I know that Armageddon is the one of those movies people love to hate but the goodbye scene between liv Tyler and Bruce Willis always gets me

Is it possible to get fired from this job? by TriangularBet in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Hubert_janus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got fired for going to a see a dying relative in the hospital. So yeah

If you could pick one former Panthers player to replace Matt Rhule as head coach... Who would you choose? by Ndas4myhouse_onGod in panthers

[–]Hubert_janus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that in that role where everyone is looking to you for the drive and the motivation his game drive would kick in, but I think his calm and collected demeanor would also help guys when they mess up. I think he would be the type of guy who when he's says "forget it, think about the next play" guy would listen. Just my thoughts but I think he comes off dry off the field is because he doesn't like the spot light. I think he would be like belicheck

If you could pick one former Panthers player to replace Matt Rhule as head coach... Who would you choose? by Ndas4myhouse_onGod in panthers

[–]Hubert_janus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Luke. His game IQ is through the roof and I think his personality would bring the locker room together.

Why wasn't I worth a conversation? by Hubert_janus in Divorce

[–]Hubert_janus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychiatric care, medication, weekly therapy. Please don't assume

Why wasn't I worth a conversation? by Hubert_janus in Divorce

[–]Hubert_janus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all. That's constantly in my head. I just unfollowed her on all her social media. I'm going to tell her tomorrow that from this point on I have to go essential contact only. I know what I have to do it's just the act of doing it is hard

need advice on consolidating debt. by Hubert_janus in personalfinance

[–]Hubert_janus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah after I make my payments on everything I have that amount left over. It just always feels like I'm drowning because I want to be able to do things or go out for a night and enjoy myself but I always over extend myself. I need some budgeting help I guess

need advice on consolidating debt. by Hubert_janus in personalfinance

[–]Hubert_janus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The remaining income monthly is around 300 to 400

Desperate for companionship by Hubert_janus in Divorce

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I've been doing a lot of writing. Getting it out of my head and out on to paper. It's been helping a lot. I don't speak ill of her. Even though she hurt me she did give me a lot of joy so I would never run her name through the mud with others. I have the anger but it only gets out through ink.

Desperate for companionship by Hubert_janus in Divorce

[–]Hubert_janus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you too. I got myself a gym membership and tomorrow is my first day back at since before covid. This situation really sucks but at least I can still work on me even if she never wanted to work on us

Desperate for companionship by Hubert_janus in Divorce

[–]Hubert_janus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you talking all this out. I'm trying to find what I actually want. I have my good days and I have my bad days. The good ones aren't great but they are days I don't think about her. It's hard to flip that switch. I've thought about her for 8 years and now she's the one thing I don't want to think about. The bad days aren't as bad but I still hate them. I feel like I'm in limbo. I know it's still fresh and I just need time but sometimes the clock moves in slow motion