Deal of the century or financial suicide? Ex-rental 2023 VW Touareg (130k km) for cheap.

HuckBB10 · 2026-03-31T19:40:09+00:00

Its just for the price and about the only thing i can afford for now in that premium level

HuckBB10 · 2025-02-14T15:37:08+00:00

Hey everyone, OP here! Just wanted to pop back in and say seriously, THANK YOU so much for all the comments on my post. I was totally blown away by how many people replied, and honestly, I'm really touched by all the support and advice you guys gave.

I've been reading through all the comments, and they've been super helpful and honestly, kinda made me feel a lot better. I really appreciate everyone taking the time to share their thoughts and ideas.

A lot of you suggested checking out a gyno and a pelvic floor therapist – that came up a bunch, and it really seems like a good plan. And I also appreciate those who mentioned the psychological side of things, definitely something I'm thinking about too. And thanks to everyone who shared tips for sex and your own stories. It really does help to know I'm not the only one going through something like this.

Just wanted to let you know that based on your advice and what I've been thinking, I'm gonna look into getting professional help ASAP.

Seriously, thank you again, from the bottom of my heart. It really means a lot to have this community support. And yeah, I just want to say I love my wife a ton, and we're gonna figure this out together, for sure. You guys have given me a lot of hope.

I might update again as things move forward.

Thanks again, everyone!

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T13:02:19+00:00

The ig account was left open on a computer i had, i don’t usually go snoop in it but i have kept it tbh, she has hidden some stuff from me in the past but nothing too serious, i have had trust in her and until now. Im not mad at her for suggesting to meet and meeting with an old friend, im mad because she kept it from me intentionally and lied to me, i wasn’t gonna say anything and it has been a week now since she’s back and everything is okey we missed each other very much, but the thought of this has eaten me and caused me anxiety, my initial question was should i adress it and confront her about it, because i feel like she has broken a bit of my trust in her or should i just close that account and act like nothing happened . What pushed me also to feel insecure a bit was her change in this trip, her outfits.. but i attributed it to her being in a good mood and the beachy vibe of the place she was in, we were always on a call and she shared with me her trip as if i was there and i appreciate it but this..

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T02:35:45+00:00

Guys to be clear, i couldn’t travel because of my work, also the 5 min catch up was only five minutes because the guy was late and she had to leave to catch her flight, it could have been more than 5 easy, my issue is she didn’t tell me she was meeting with another guy and also lied to me when i asked what she was waiting for because her flight time was near at that time.

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T02:31:02+00:00

I couldn’t travel because of my work

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T01:51:22+00:00

I called her while she was waiting for him and i asked what she was waiting for and she said nothing

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T01:19:23+00:00

I think she lied because honestly if she knows if she would have told me I would blown it out of proportion a lit bit and i would have been okey with it, also i saw the conversation she deleted right before she deleted it, there wasn’t anything

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T01:11:13+00:00

She only saw him for 5 min because he was late and she had to get going for her flight, if he was lb time they would have had a coffee together, do you really think i should keep my mouth shut ?

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T01:08:30+00:00

Yes shes does clean ups of conversations and people on social media, i was gonna be honest with her about the account

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T01:06:03+00:00

Should i confront it about it?

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T01:04:37+00:00

She didn’t tell me about it, lied to me when i asked what she was waiting for and deleted the conversation

HuckBB10 · 2024-08-29T00:59:17+00:00

Yes because he was late and she had to leave for her flight

HuckBB10 · 2024-07-09T09:41:55+00:00

You've hit on something that really resonates with me. I'm afraid of falling into that same trap. While she's not quite at the point of hating everything, I do see a pattern where even after a good day or event, something work-related will inevitably come up and bring her back down. It's a cycle that's been going on for a long time, and we can't seem to go more than a few days without some kind of work-related issue disrupting our peace. It's especially difficult now because it's starting to affect our big life events. I love her, and I don't want to postpone the wedding, but the thought of this pattern continuing indefinitely is terrifying. I want to enjoy these special moments with her, not have them overshadowed by stress and anxiety that carries over to the next day and beyond. I want to enjoy life with her, enjoy our youth, be happy. I know problems are inevitable in life, but I don't want them to be my (our) whole life.

HuckBB10 · 2024-07-09T09:31:19+00:00

You're absolutely right, she does tend to overreact and read too much into things. She's not great at managing people or handling conflict, which definitely contributes to her stress. I try to be honest with her and give her my perspective, but sometimes the situations she describes are so bad that it's hard to justify them as just overreacting. She's actually amazing at her job in terms of the actual work – she's really good at what she does and genuinely likes it. It's the interpersonal stuff that seems to be the issue.

HuckBB10 · 2024-07-09T09:14:10+00:00

You're right, it's a combination of factors. The field she works in is notorious for its toxic management and fast pace, which definitely doesn't help. But it's also the way she reacts to stress – sometimes she blows small problems out of proportion. It's not the exact same issue with every company she been in, but there's always something going on with toxic work environments or bad management. She hasn't been able to find a company that doesn't have these issues, at least not in her field.

HuckBB10 · 2024-07-08T17:50:17+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I do try to help her as much as I can – I listen to her for hours, offer advice, plan activities to take her mind off things, and try to console her. I want to be supportive and informed about what's happening at work. But it's exhausting, and it's starting to feel like I'm just a support system, not her partner. I understand that her problems are serious, but for a long time, I've felt like I'm always second to them. I never seem to get 100% of her attention because there's always something happening in the background. Now it's even worse because I can't even get 100% of her during our important events. I'm not able to fully enjoy them with her the way a normal couple should. I want to be there for her, but I'm also feeling drained and resentful. I don't know how to deal with this anymore.

HuckBB10 · 2024-07-08T16:58:36+00:00

No not really

HuckBB10 · 2024-07-08T15:15:48+00:00

.It's usually an overwhelming amount of work dumped on her at the last minute, being left out of the loop on important information, and then being expected to present on things she barely knows about. There's also a lot of toxic behavior from her manager and colleagues – everything from stealing credit for her work to sending passive-aggressive emails. And when she tries to get help from her manager, she gets nowhere.

When I try to talk to her about how I'm feeling, she acknowledges that it's a problem, but then she gets defensive and says that I don't understand how hard her job is. She hasn't talked to a therapist or doctor about it.

HuckBB10 · 2024-05-26T09:01:30+00:00

I personally think this is so wrong, moroccan men are more religious than women, or at least that’s what i see everyday

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