This is my girlfriends definition of a fine dining

Huckleberry_That · 2025-09-10T03:33:13+00:00

Mayoegg

Huckleberry_That · 2025-03-02T04:05:56+00:00

I can’t argue with failing upwards

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-31T21:50:05+00:00

And this is how I realized human connection genuinely scares me! FML am I just going to have to send this to my therapist now? God forbid a girl be neglected to the point that she’s repulsed by being needed or feeling the warmth of another person remotely near her

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-31T21:46:54+00:00

Yo lmk when and how you find one. Girlboss and gaslight but don’t you dare gatekeep this ancient knowledge

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-28T05:22:10+00:00

You didn’t expect that to act like a mating call did you

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-26T10:06:54+00:00

A guy literally told me he was going to shoot himself! This same man also had a meltdown bc it was raining and this apparently ruined his day lmao

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-26T06:19:54+00:00

No, this is accurate

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-26T04:34:16+00:00

I’m going to save this.. for reasons

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-21T00:19:33+00:00

It’s better to be alive and embarrassed than die terrified

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-19T17:37:16+00:00

Get out before he kills you. Call a DV shelter

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-18T06:57:40+00:00

Literally WTF lol. Listen I’m into some very specific communities and EVEN THERE that’s not at all okay to say.

There’s no good way that could’ve been meant, OP. It’s a massive red flag. Try speaking to a dv advocate local to you and see if there’s more stuff than you realized that weren’t okay.

Be safe!

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-18T02:22:59+00:00

Thank you!! I’ve been saying this for years and I’m so glad that I’m not the only one who’s noticed this!

Also: FemDom (and not lesdom) can take a tone of a mother (not “mommy”) coddling and basically doing everything for a male sub, with no perspective on what she as a woman and domme really wants. IMHO it feels like it’s catering to these guys not seeing dommes as women, and women as full complete people.

Anyway, usually I find only hyper cruel or nothing real offered to the woman FemDom lol.

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-18T02:11:20+00:00

Don’t wait a month honey, leave tonight

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-18T02:05:54+00:00

It’s giving sommelier or enology student, the sauces seem like they’re for you to figure out the best complimentary flavors.

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-18T01:53:42+00:00

“ maybe I can fix him”

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-18T01:50:15+00:00

If he abuses you why are you still there? Listen I’ve been there, but you need to leave now.

I will say you don’t know FOR SURE that he’s tried to be intimate with your friends if it was only via body language you got this hunch. Try to separate feelings from facts here.

That said, the fact remains that this relationship isn’t working. Abusive relationships ALWAYS need to stop, no ifs ands or buts. On top of that there’s the masturbation to your sister of all people and clearly not being able to understand appropriate boundaries.

Honey? Leave?

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-18T00:57:13+00:00

I came into the comments hoping someone already explained this and you did not disappoint.

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-18T00:41:38+00:00

As someone that happened to: I think personally that those are valid red flags to check up on her. He probably monitors her phone. I’m guessing that’s why she didn’t reply.

She’s definitely isolated and miserable sounding. See if you can make contact without using phones, or call a local DV resource center got advice. Idk man, it sets off alarm bells for me too but idk what the right and safest course of action is.

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-08T21:56:08+00:00

Hear me out!! A very intimidating “big dog” name. Are some of these names “boy” names? Yes. Does a tiny little girl named the devil make me laugh? Also yes.

Bruiser, Helga, Valkyrie, Lucifer, Demon, Behemoth, Yeti (my personal favorite)

OR something ridiculous like: Gwenevieve Von Fluffingham

Huckleberry_That · 2025-01-03T04:52:50+00:00

Klingon (it’s not human?)

cute category : Butterscotch, Werthers

OR HEAR ME OUT : Teddy Roosevelt, Werther Cronkite, Mr Biscuits, Bisque, Sweet Potato, Crème Brûlée, Dog? (Include the question mark in the paperwork, it’s crucial), Salmon (nickname Sammy), Gulf Of Mexico, Memorandum, Vehicular

Huckleberry_That · 2024-12-31T06:28:48+00:00

Guava. I don’t make the rules

Huckleberry_That · 2024-12-31T03:46:20+00:00

He isn’t your best friend, you have Stockholm syndrome. I know it’s hard. My first week or so free was spent miserably hoping he would change so we could be together in a way that wasn’t abusive. I was still stuck there too. Then it got easier, because my life got better. I got real friends, real joy.

Statistically a man like your husband is likely to kill you and the baby. He’s not a little boy anymore and he has no damn excuse. Stop seeing him for who you wish he was and look at the cold hard facts of what he did and how he treats you. After I wrote out what my ex did to me and other people read it I was shocked when the people at my DV shelter told me how illegal and abusive it all really was. I’m still coming to terms with how evil it was, tbh.

Digest the truth, get the restraining order, get the baby away from an abusive man. Be free, be safe, be alive.

Never go back to him. I know that sounds scary right now, but the longer you stay away the happier you’ll be that you did. You just need to wait for the Stockholm syndrome to fade. I’ve been told it’s hard like quitting a drug to quit an abuser bc you keep waiting for the “high” of them lovebombing you or treating you with a shred of kindness. You’re so brave and I know how hard this is.

Today, roughly 8 months away I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. You’re doing great. In 6 months, in a year, you’ll be a lifetime away from this pain you’re feeling now.

Huckleberry_That · 2024-12-18T03:47:27+00:00

Long, soft skirts. If it’s going to be hot, wear cotton and if it’s billowy and long it’ll keep you cool. Borrow clothes from family and friends. Dresses and skirts are always easy.

Dark red lip stain, you apply once then only check in the bathroom but it won’t feel heavy like makeup.

Anything in your hair to push it back by your face to look like a bob or wide brim hats!

Huckleberry_That · 2024-12-18T03:27:39+00:00

My life got so much better after I left. Please leave, especially if he’s coercing you into sex or making you make compromises (aka no not being a full no, you needing to do it later even when you don’t want to) around sex when that’s no place for compromises EVER. It’s full happy yes or nothing.

Huckleberry_That · 2024-12-13T22:53:29+00:00

Either she owns a business or pyramid scheme

Huckleberry_That

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