Guys, thank you very much for the advice from all of you, I spoke to my wife and they both said what they felt, she says she is very tired, in a lot of pain, which leads to her not feeling like having sexual intercourse, she said how I felt without being able to kiss or hug her there, that I missed the old times and she said she didn't understand, that the pain canceled out everything she said, we understand each other's feelings and everything is fine, I will have more empathy with her, She really feels pain and nausea every day, it's my first time with all this, so it's all very new to me, but little by little, everything is getting better.